Sunday, March 18, 2007
He came to her rescue
ashley, 14, from Hawaii, asks:
I'm going to a formal dance with a guy I asked him he said yes.
One day I cried in front of the whole class because I was bullied and he came over and actually said if I was OK. (Does that mean he likes me???)
2) He smiles at me. Well, he smiles at everyone but me a little different. (Does that mean he likes me?)
3) Dance was canceled he told me how sorry he was that the dance was cancelled but he said maybe next time OH MY GOSH! (Does that mean he likes me?)
4) A lot of people know that we are going to dance.
5) But the problem is that he is very smart guy and he has a 4.0 and I told his sister if his brother would like a girlfriend she told me that he didn't have a girlfriend but isn't interested . How can I make him want to have a girlfrined and that he won't make a mistake in having one. He is the perfect guy every girl wants but I'm scared of making him not like me.
6) He told me what my favorite color was what does that mean? For the dance.
VictorM's answer:
Yeah, he likes you, in a 14/15 years old boy kinda way. Meaning, he's just starting to notice girls and he's curious, so lots and lots of girls catch his attention. You're one of them. He came to your help much like guys do to the damsel in distress scene in movies; good guys like to be the heroes.
Don't listen to his sisters -- she knows jack about his feelings. She's probably right, but that's just coincidence.
He may not be ready for a girlfriend yet, so the best thing for you to do is to just be his friend. Don't make a big fuss about him "being the perfect guy", but do compliment him from time to time and talk to him about topics he likes. Guys love being around girls who listen to them talk about things they like and know a lot about.
He asked you for your favorite color for the dance so you two would match. It doesn't mean he's ready to marry you and have babies together.
I'm going to a formal dance with a guy I asked him he said yes.
One day I cried in front of the whole class because I was bullied and he came over and actually said if I was OK. (Does that mean he likes me???)
2) He smiles at me. Well, he smiles at everyone but me a little different. (Does that mean he likes me?)
3) Dance was canceled he told me how sorry he was that the dance was cancelled but he said maybe next time OH MY GOSH! (Does that mean he likes me?)
4) A lot of people know that we are going to dance.
5) But the problem is that he is very smart guy and he has a 4.0 and I told his sister if his brother would like a girlfriend she told me that he didn't have a girlfriend but isn't interested . How can I make him want to have a girlfrined and that he won't make a mistake in having one. He is the perfect guy every girl wants but I'm scared of making him not like me.
6) He told me what my favorite color was what does that mean? For the dance.
VictorM's answer:
Yeah, he likes you, in a 14/15 years old boy kinda way. Meaning, he's just starting to notice girls and he's curious, so lots and lots of girls catch his attention. You're one of them. He came to your help much like guys do to the damsel in distress scene in movies; good guys like to be the heroes.
Don't listen to his sisters -- she knows jack about his feelings. She's probably right, but that's just coincidence.
He may not be ready for a girlfriend yet, so the best thing for you to do is to just be his friend. Don't make a big fuss about him "being the perfect guy", but do compliment him from time to time and talk to him about topics he likes. Guys love being around girls who listen to them talk about things they like and know a lot about.
He asked you for your favorite color for the dance so you two would match. It doesn't mean he's ready to marry you and have babies together.
Labels: damsel in distress, does he like me, perfect guy, to the dance
