Saturday, December 16, 2006
I met someone online at a dating site
Eden, 59, from brulington nc asks:
I met someone online at a dating site. He called me 2 months ago and we hit it off immediately. Since the first week he has been saying I love you and we met for a 3 day weekend where he treated me like a princess. He is a sweet and a good man and has emailed me and called me everyday since I left him to come back home and told me he loves and misses me. When I asked him where our relationship was headed after I got home he told me that I was the most beautiful and sexy woman he had ever been with but that we needed to spend more time together to see if we are meant to be life partners. I am spending two weeks with him in January. I don't want to pressure him or drive him off but I am so in love with this guy. What do i do to get him to commit to me?
VictorM's advice:
Stop asking where your relationship is going. Few things irritate a guy more than that. Accept that guys generally move into relationships at a slower clip than females. So, relax, enjoy the company, and STOP RUSHING THINGS.
I met someone online at a dating site. He called me 2 months ago and we hit it off immediately. Since the first week he has been saying I love you and we met for a 3 day weekend where he treated me like a princess. He is a sweet and a good man and has emailed me and called me everyday since I left him to come back home and told me he loves and misses me. When I asked him where our relationship was headed after I got home he told me that I was the most beautiful and sexy woman he had ever been with but that we needed to spend more time together to see if we are meant to be life partners. I am spending two weeks with him in January. I don't want to pressure him or drive him off but I am so in love with this guy. What do i do to get him to commit to me?
VictorM's advice:
Stop asking where your relationship is going. Few things irritate a guy more than that. Accept that guys generally move into relationships at a slower clip than females. So, relax, enjoy the company, and STOP RUSHING THINGS.
Labels: commitment, online dating, relationship, romance
