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Tuesday, February 20, 2007
He's 2 years younger
a girl, 16, from MN asks:
I really like this guy but he's 2 years younger than me. I'm a junior and he's freshman. I want to tell him I like him but I don't know how. What signals should I show him? Or should I just tell him directly?
VictorM's advice:
You cradle rocker, you! (Just kidding)
Don't tell him at all. Be his friend without being a pal, if you know what I mean. Boys at his age may not be ready for being a boyfriend. It might even be somewhat scary for him considering you're the "older woman". When boys are ready for girls, they like to chase. Conquest is the ultimate ego booster. Let him chase you. If he doesn't, it just means he's not ready yet.
I really like this guy but he's 2 years younger than me. I'm a junior and he's freshman. I want to tell him I like him but I don't know how. What signals should I show him? Or should I just tell him directly?
VictorM's advice:
You cradle rocker, you! (Just kidding)
Don't tell him at all. Be his friend without being a pal, if you know what I mean. Boys at his age may not be ready for being a boyfriend. It might even be somewhat scary for him considering you're the "older woman". When boys are ready for girls, they like to chase. Conquest is the ultimate ego booster. Let him chase you. If he doesn't, it just means he's not ready yet.
Labels: age difference, freshman, junior, older girl, younger boy
