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Wednesday, April 11, 2007
Her fiance likes 18-year-old porn
Tammy, 34, from Phoenix, asks:
Can you please tell me if it is normal for my fiance (who is 33) to view teen (as in 18 years old, not younger) pornography. He also views older than 18 years, which is not a problem for me. I enjoy a little bit of porn also. He does not know that I know he has viewed 18 and 19 year olds. This bothers me that they are so young looking! A site he goes to is babysitters.com. I think it is disgusting. How do I get past this? I cannot let him know that I found this info on his computer. Thank you for your opinion
VictorM's advice:
Tammy, get a grip. 18-year-olds are adults! Your fiance's behavior is totally normal. Why do you think two of the most popular franchises in porn are "Barely Legal" and "Girls Gone Wild" (which is mostly college age girls)?
Porn is mostly about fantasy. Come on, guys want to fantasize with girls at their best, and the college age years (18 to 23) are the best for physical looks -- boobs are perkier, skin is tighter, and there's an aura of innocence, which fits with most fantasies.
If you're OK with porn, there should be nothing disgusting about legal age teens. Stop acting like an old fart.
But I'm puzzled about the site you mentioned -- it's not porn!
Can you please tell me if it is normal for my fiance (who is 33) to view teen (as in 18 years old, not younger) pornography. He also views older than 18 years, which is not a problem for me. I enjoy a little bit of porn also. He does not know that I know he has viewed 18 and 19 year olds. This bothers me that they are so young looking! A site he goes to is babysitters.com. I think it is disgusting. How do I get past this? I cannot let him know that I found this info on his computer. Thank you for your opinion
VictorM's advice:
Tammy, get a grip. 18-year-olds are adults! Your fiance's behavior is totally normal. Why do you think two of the most popular franchises in porn are "Barely Legal" and "Girls Gone Wild" (which is mostly college age girls)?
Porn is mostly about fantasy. Come on, guys want to fantasize with girls at their best, and the college age years (18 to 23) are the best for physical looks -- boobs are perkier, skin is tighter, and there's an aura of innocence, which fits with most fantasies.
If you're OK with porn, there should be nothing disgusting about legal age teens. Stop acting like an old fart.
But I'm puzzled about the site you mentioned -- it's not porn!
Labels: babysitter, fiance, porn
