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Tuesday, April 03, 2007
Faithful and trustworthy relationship
Michelle pollard, 18, from Cincinnati oh, asks:
How can I make my baby's father wanna be in a faithful and trustworthy relationship?
VictorM's answer:
You can't. You simply can't. No magic wand, no voodoo doll, no vice around his testicles will make him be faithful unless it comes from him to want to be that way.
One thing I hope you understand is that your baby's father behavior is all of his doing, none of yours. It won't matter if you change your clothes, go on a diet, cook better... nothing. When a guy is bent on cheating, he will do so first and think of excuses later. It's a reflection of his value system, his desires, his lack of willpower, his selfishness... it's all about "me, me, me" for such people. It's greed, and greed comes from within.
So whatever you do, do not blame yourself. Make sure you get child support. Other than that... don't count on much from him.
How can I make my baby's father wanna be in a faithful and trustworthy relationship?
VictorM's answer:
You can't. You simply can't. No magic wand, no voodoo doll, no vice around his testicles will make him be faithful unless it comes from him to want to be that way.
One thing I hope you understand is that your baby's father behavior is all of his doing, none of yours. It won't matter if you change your clothes, go on a diet, cook better... nothing. When a guy is bent on cheating, he will do so first and think of excuses later. It's a reflection of his value system, his desires, his lack of willpower, his selfishness... it's all about "me, me, me" for such people. It's greed, and greed comes from within.
So whatever you do, do not blame yourself. Make sure you get child support. Other than that... don't count on much from him.
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