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Tuesday, February 13, 2007
He didn't cuddle me to sleep
Ada, 35, asks:
I have been dating a man for three months now. He keeps telling me about the future and how much he loves me. I spent a night with him at the hotel on my birthday. I was just wondering why he didn't cuddle me to sleep. And why he didn't plan anything special for my birthday, not even a simple card. Does it mean he doesn't love me for real?
VictorM's answer:
No, it doesn't mean he doesn't love you; it just means he doesn't show it the way you'd like him to. But don't let these signs go to waste. Do you want a man who doesn't cuddle and doesn't plan something special? If you do, you found your guy, otherwise, you have to decide if him loving you his own way is enough for you.
I know the guy can't read your mind, so if you're going to give him another chance please, please, please don't make the common mistake that women make and insist that he SHOULD know what you like. That's bullshit! Help him do the things that please you. Because if you don't, and expect him to change on his own, you're risking being dead wrong.
I have been dating a man for three months now. He keeps telling me about the future and how much he loves me. I spent a night with him at the hotel on my birthday. I was just wondering why he didn't cuddle me to sleep. And why he didn't plan anything special for my birthday, not even a simple card. Does it mean he doesn't love me for real?
VictorM's answer:
No, it doesn't mean he doesn't love you; it just means he doesn't show it the way you'd like him to. But don't let these signs go to waste. Do you want a man who doesn't cuddle and doesn't plan something special? If you do, you found your guy, otherwise, you have to decide if him loving you his own way is enough for you.
I know the guy can't read your mind, so if you're going to give him another chance please, please, please don't make the common mistake that women make and insist that he SHOULD know what you like. That's bullshit! Help him do the things that please you. Because if you don't, and expect him to change on his own, you're risking being dead wrong.
Labels: advice, cold fish, cuddling
