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Monday, July 31, 2006
Net Neutrality -- What is it?
If you're curious what this issue is all about, or if you have an opinion about the topic, check this thread on our Controversy Forum.
Obesity weighs more heavily on women's health
Full article here:
Being overweight puts a greater burden on women's health than men's, a new study shows... In their report, the researchers suggest several explanations for the gender differences. "To me what makes more sense is that there's just a lot more social stigma associated with being overweight amongst females, and that that causes a lot more stress and distress," Muennig said. "There's evidence showing that high levels of stress can increase your risk of morbidity and mortality." The findings provide evidence, he added, that "the message that women are getting in the mass media about their weight is actually more harmful than we previously thought."
Sunday, July 30, 2006
It's not just Short Stories
Send your original poems to Short Stories. Don't ask why we named the blog Short Stories if we planned to post poems as well. You know, poor planning. If we keep this up we'll be asked to run a war or a disaster relief agency. Anyway... go read the poem A Silent Life. And send us your poems or short stories.
Saturday, July 29, 2006
Is it OK to hate atheists?
Melvin Lipman, the president of the American Humanist Association, thinks that with conservative religious taking over the USA, it has become politically correct to hate atheists. Do you believe that's so? (Religion Today)
One night stand... again and again
Skits says: I had a one night stand with a friend of mine last weekend... I don't want to be anything other than just a sex relationship with him... Do you think it would be okay to go to his house again and just let myself in or is this being too rude?" If you have an opinion for Skits, come tell her. (Ask A Real Guy)
Friday, July 28, 2006
They broke-up but she wants him back
Nicole says: My boyfriend and I... broke up about three days ago and I miss him... He told me that we were good together but it's just not the right time, but I want him back..." (Ask A Real Girl)
Vegan diet reverses diabetes symptoms
People who ate a low-fat vegan diet, cutting out all meat and dairy, lowered their blood sugar more and lost more weight than people on a standard American Diabetes Association diet, researchers said on Thursday.
They lowered their cholesterol more and ended up with better kidney function, according to the report published in Diabetes Care, a journal published by the American Diabetes Association.
Participants said the vegan diet was easier to follow than most because they did not measure portions or count calories. Three of the vegan dieters dropped out of the study, compared to eight on the standard diet.
"I hope this study will rekindle interest in using diet changes first, rather than prescription drugs," Dr. Neal Barnard, president of the Physician's Committee for Responsible Medicine, which helped conduct the study, told a news conference.
Full article here.
Thursday, July 27, 2006
Discuss Andrea Yates decision
Come to our Controversy Forum and discuss the Andrea Yates decision.
Listen up boys. Lee has a gold nugget for you
Chris says: "So I'm just starting to see this girl. I feel like we have a connection, but I'm not sure. There's all these awkward moments with us when there's nothing said."
Lee has the magic cure. She says: "Use this moment to your biggest advantage and gently..." Well, you have to visit her blog to get the rest. (Ask A Real Girl)
Lee has the magic cure. She says: "Use this moment to your biggest advantage and gently..." Well, you have to visit her blog to get the rest. (Ask A Real Girl)
He slept with a good friend of mine, should I work it out?
Jenna asks: "...Recently he slept with a really good friend of mine, and I am devastated... I don't want it to end but I am mad at both of them. He says he wants to work it out... Should I try and work it out with him?" (Ask A Real Guy)
Amateur golfers are an unhealthy group
Some athletes, huh?
America's amateur golfers are an unhealthy group, according to an unscientific online survey published in the August issue of Golf Digest. Among the results from the 514 mostly male subscribers who responded, 66 percent are overweight... Among survey respondents, 76 percent consume an average of 6.8 alcoholic drinks per week. Nine percent admitted to drinking 10 or more beers during a round of golf... Thirty percent said they were unable to finish a round because of an ailment.
Wednesday, July 26, 2006
Teen People is history
Don't cry now, but Time has decided to stop publishing that "masterpiece":
Time Inc., a major magazine publisher, said Tuesday it would stop publishing Teen People but keep the magazine's Web site operating. The magazine, whose circulation has been slipping over the past few years, was launched in 1998... a Time Inc. spokeswoman, cited a "challenging" advertising market in the company's decision to close down the magazine... Ealier this year publisher Hachette Filipacchi Media closed its Elle Girl magazine but also kept the Web site.
Tuesday, July 25, 2006
Turn off that darn TV set!
Turn off the TV while you're studying, here's why:
Your parents were right, don't study with the TV on. Multitasking may be a necessity in today's fast-paced world, but new research shows distractions affect the way people learn, making the knowledge they gain harder to use later on.
The study, in Monday's Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, also provides a clue as to why it happens.
"What's new is that even if you can learn while distracted, it changes how you learn to make it less efficient and useful," said Russell A. Poldrack, a psychology professor at the University of California, Los Angeles.
That could affect a lot of young people. A study by the Kaiser Family Foundation last year found third-graders through 12th-graders devoted, on average, nearly 6 1/2 hours per day to TV and videos, music, video games and computers.
Monday, July 24, 2006
Catholic Church and masturbation
Part of a question posed to us: "This person is Catholic and the Catholic Church frowns on masturbation, so if he/she has been sleeping nude for the past 30 years and a good percent masturbating during that sleep time, and being frowned on by the Church, Is he/she destined to hell?" (Religion Today)
Sunday, July 23, 2006
Prevent Sun Damage
Something to consider if you're a sun worshiper:
There's another weapon in the war against sunburn and skin cancer, and it comes in the form of a pill.
Heliocare, made from the extract of a tropical fern that has been used for generations in folk medicine to treat skin conditions like psoriasis and eczema, is an herbal supplement that you can take daily to prevent sun damage.
Heliocare won't stop you from getting burned, but it will help you if do get burned, says Dr. Jessica Wu, a dermatologist in Los Angeles. So, you still need to wear sunscreen.
Stomach watching
papergirl asks: "A guy that I work with often looks at my stomach area while we are talking. I think this is an odd place to focus...Is this a way not to make eye contact or is it a sexual thing?" (Ask A Real Guy)
Saturday, July 22, 2006
Testing for Downs Syndrome
Julie, 41, asks: "I just took a home pregnancy test and it is positive. We are so excited. My youngest daughter has Downs Syndrome and is the love of our lives. I had her at age 35. How far along do you have to be before you can have the HCG test done to check for DS?" (Ask A Real Mom)
Do you have some extra cash?
This is a good way to avoid city traffic for a while:
WASHINGTON Jul 21, 2006 (AP)— You don't have to be an astronaut anymore to experience walking in space. All you need is $35 million and the willingness to risk your life. A private Virginia firm that already has sent three super-rich men to the international space station for $20 million each announced Friday it would offer an even rarer adventure: A stroll outside the space station for an extra $15 million.
Friday, July 21, 2006
Savvy Consumer: Numbers to Know
This article has great information if you live in the USA. Who to call/site to visit to: Stop the Barrage of Credit Card Offers; Drastically Reduce Junk Mail; Stop Telemarketers Cold; Get Your Free Annual Credit Report; Check a Company's Reputation — In Advance; Check Out Charities Before You Give; and more. Read the article and save the information for when you need it.
Should A Woman Be Able to Choose a C-Section Birth?
The ARgville Forum members have been engaging in a lively and informative discussion on C-sections. I fear some members may develop carpal tunnel syndrome because how much they've typed, but believe me, it's well-worth your time. (Should A Woman Be Able to Choose a C-Section Birth?)
Thursday, July 20, 2006
Stem cell research veto
President Bush vetoed the stem cell research bill. VictorM had this to say: "Yes, I'm glad he vetoed the bill." Huh?! Come discuss it here.
Going smoke-free
Another good step for civilization as we know it:
BALTIMORE - Hotel operator Marriott International Inc. said Wednesday that all of its hotels in the United States and Canada will be smoke-free starting in September.
The move follows an industry trend, said analyst William Crow of Raymond James & Associates. The Westin Hotel chain made its rooms smoke-free in February, followed in March by Disneyland Resort in Anaheim, Calif. Other hotels have been steadily reducing their inventory of smoking rooms in recent years. "It's probably a precursor of what's to come," said Crow. "Given where we are as a country, the no-smoking laws that have been put in place, we'll probably see other chains jump on board."
Wednesday, July 19, 2006
What We Need Most
Forum members, that's what. Join our ARGville Forum and rant about your life, give advice to others, or debate controversial events. The forum has a small but passionate and entertaining group of members. We could use a few more.
Come on. We're waiting for you.
Come on. We're waiting for you.
Attention California Beach Goers
It's not just sharks you need to worry about:
As many as 1.5 million people are sickened by bacterial pollution on Southern California beaches each year... that between 627,800 and 1,479,200 "excess" cases of gastrointestinal illness occur at the beaches each year. That is beyond the number that would normally be expected. Gastrointestinal illness is most commonly associated with swimming in contaminated water and causes such symptoms as stomach cramps, diarrhea and vomiting.Maybe this explains Lindsay Lohan's weight loss.
Tuesday, July 18, 2006
Employers hit smokers in the wallet
"A growing number of private and public employers are requiring employees who use tobacco to pay higher premiums, hoping that will motivate more of them to stop smoking and lower health care costs for the companies and their workers."
What's your opinion on this topic? There's a lively debate about it in our Controversy Forum.
What's your opinion on this topic? There's a lively debate about it in our Controversy Forum.
Why we're fatter
Five reasons we usually don't think of that contribute to obesity:
Inadequate sleep: causes a decrease in leptin, which boosts appetite and produces obesity, and increases ghrelin, a potent stimulator of hunger and appetite.Read this article for more detailed explanations.
Chemical contamination: The water, soil, and food to which we are exposed increasingly are contaminated with chemicals... that accumulate in the body and mimic or interfere with hormones that regulate body functions.
Heating and air-conditioning: Living in an environment that is excessively cold or warm forces the body to expend calories...
Smoking cessation: Smoking also kills appetite
Medications: Most of the medications frequently prescribed to moderate moods and depression or treat other mental illness... promote weight gain.
Monday, July 17, 2006
It's hot, hot, hot!
Global warming? No such thing. And yes, the Earth is flat and the Sun rotates around the Earth! Pass it on.
The average temperature for the continental United States from January through June 2006 was the warmest first half of any year since records began in 1895... Last month was the second warmest June on record and nationally averaged precipitation was below average.... The global surface temperature was second warmest on record for June.
Saturday, July 15, 2006
Pregnancy issues answered
Single Umbilical Artery... Placenta Previa... 4 months pregnant and I still getting periods... huh? Thank the lucky stars we have Stacy to enlighten us all. Another update with lots of information about pregnancy. (Ask A Real Mom)
No such thing as the perfect wife
A few days ago we had a question by a young girl that contained this sentence: "I have been trying to show him that I can be the perfect wife, cooking, cleaning and attending to his every need..." Susan, one of our regular visitors, took exception to that sentiment and wrote an excellent piece debunking that notion.
If you're a young girl that feels you need to "attend to his every need", Susan's opinions are a must read. (Ask A Real Guy)
If you're a young girl that feels you need to "attend to his every need", Susan's opinions are a must read. (Ask A Real Guy)
Shorter dresses. Really?
Dresses for the summer are going shorter... or are they? The shorter designers claim their dresses are, the more they seem to remain the same. Look at the pictures of these shorter dresses for the summer of 2006 and be the judge. (Pop Culture)
Friday, July 14, 2006
Easier Way to Detect Breast Cancer
Something every woman should know:
A 2005 study done by the American College of Radiology Imaging Network showed that digital mammography diagnosed 28 percent more cancers in women under 50 with dense breasts, making digital mammography a better option for them. But current digital systems are sometimes too expensive for many hospitals and imaging centers.
Until now. Radiologists hope that the Food and Drug Administration's approval of a new, cheaper digital system will allow more women to benefit from this newer technology.
The Fuji Computer Radiology for Mammography is not the first digital system approved by the FDA, but at half the price of other digital-screening machines, it is more cost effective, and its design works better.
Are you good with colors?
Do you think you can improve the look of this site with a new color scheme? Do you have other ideas to make this site more appealing? Come tell us your suggestions.
Thursday, July 13, 2006
Must read handbook for all women
Lee brings to our attention something that has 8,000 nerve endings and makes women go crazy. Do you know what it is? Read this topic in our Forum
Should Every American Adult Be Tested for HIV?
What do you think of this idea:
The national Centers for Disease Control and Prevention is expected to release... guidelines this summer that would expand HIV screening to all adults in the United States... If this happens, it means that just about anybody over the age of 13 could be asked by their doctor, "Would you like an HIV test?"... At least 25 percent of Americans infected with HIV are unaware of their status, according to the CDC... Unlike the early days of the virus in the 1980s, HIV testing is today more accurate, and the disease itself can be treated as a chronic disease, meaning people can live a normal life span... "Today, in my mind, it would be almost criminal to not test more widely for HIV. … The reason people are dying today [from HIV/AIDS] is that they are diagnosed late.
Wednesday, July 12, 2006
Kimberly's dilemma
Kimberly says: "I am with a man who has an ex wife and two children. He and I lived together for a year and he decided for the kids he would move back home... I am completely in love with him and want him to be with me. What can I do? Am I being used?" (Ask A Real Guy)
Tuesday, July 11, 2006
She needs help getting pregnant
First, let's welcome Nicole, a new member to our Forum. She posted this question: "My husband and I are trying to get pregnant for the first time. I had no idea it would be so challenging. For some reason I thought it would just happen. Has anyone else been in this position?" If you feel you can help Nicole, join the forum and post your reply here.
Eat Your Fish!
Study: Eating fish helps protect eyesight:
CHICAGO - Two new studies give one more reason to eat a diet rich in fish: prevention of age-related macular degeneration, the leading cause of blindness in old age... A study of 681 elderly American men showed that those who ate fish twice a week had a 36 percent lower risk of macular degeneration. In the other study, which followed 2,335 Australian men and women over five years, people who ate fish just once a week reduced their risk by 40 percent.
Monday, July 10, 2006
A busy Ask A Real Mom update
Stacy answers several questions today, dealing with taking birth control pills while pregnant (could it harm the baby?), "bleeding about the same time I would have my period", and lower back pain. Do not miss this wealth of information from someone who knows her stuff. (Ask A Real Mom)
Part one of The Binding Soul
Santi wasn't feeling very well, but she went on the bus anyway. Alex came in contact with Santi and now he's terribly ill. Read part one of a three part short story by Mau. (Short Stories)
Bravo Italia!!!!!
Congratulation to Italy for winning the 2006 World Cup.
And to all the football (soccer) fans around the world, one plea: despite one momentary lapse of reason in the overtime, remember that Zinedine Zidane has been a class act during his brilliant career and the greatest footballer of his generation.
And to all the football (soccer) fans around the world, one plea: despite one momentary lapse of reason in the overtime, remember that Zinedine Zidane has been a class act during his brilliant career and the greatest footballer of his generation.
Sunday, July 09, 2006
Pork or Chicken?
How things can change, thanks to pig farmers efforts:
Pork recently took the lead over its main competitor, chicken, in the battle to be the leanest white meat. An analysis by the U.S. Department of Agriculture showed that a 3-ounce piece of pork tenderloin had 2.98 grams of fat while a 3-ounce skinless chicken breast contained 3.03 grams of fat... The race to make pork as healthy as chicken began 25 years ago when the industry realized that Americans wanted healthier, low-fat meat options. Leaner hogs brought a better price, so the industry had an incentive to breed pigs with less fat.
Saturday, July 08, 2006
When It's Time to Have Sex
Join our ARGville Forum and come discuss this topic with us. Lee is too picky, Stacy too unrealistic, and Irina too movie-oriented. So, what's your opinion? What are your rules before sex enters the picture in a relationship?
Friday, July 07, 2006
High Tylenol doses linked to liver woes
Watch that Tylenol:
CHICAGO - Healthy adults taking maximum doses of Tylenol for two weeks had abnormal liver test results in a small study, researchers found, raising concerns that even recommended amounts of the popular painkiller might lead to liver damage.
In the study, 106 participants took four grams of Tylenol — equivalent to eight extra-strength Tylenol tablets — each day for two weeks. Some took Tylenol alone and some took it with an opioid painkiller. Dummy pills were given to 39 others.
There were no alarming liver test results among the people who took the placebos. But nearly 40 percent of people in all the other groups had abnormal test results that would signal liver damage...
Thursday, July 06, 2006
Psycho ex-boyfriend
Christine is talking about her ex and says: "I told him I didn't want anything to do with him but he threatened to stab me fella if I didn't get back with him... Me ex is rough and is involved with heroin, but I'm terrified about what he'll do" (Christine is from Ireland, in case you couldn't tell by the "accent"). What is she to do? (Ask A Real Girl)
Wednesday, July 05, 2006
Mindless Reading
Pay close attention when you read this:
Ever read the same paragraph three times? Or get to the end of a page and realize you don't know what you just read? ... In a new study of college students... The readers who zoned out most tended to do the worst on tests of reading comprehension a significant, if not surprising, result. The study also suggested that zoning out caused the poor test results, as opposed to other possible factors, such as the complexity of the text or the task.
Tuesday, July 04, 2006
A letter to fashion designers
Irina writes a letter to fashion designers explaining why today big girls have small choices. (Pop Culture)
Happy Birthday America!
We hope all of you celebrating this day will have great and safe fun.
Monday, July 03, 2006
Gopal and Malati
Ranjit Sinha Roy gives us another wonderful short story rich in Indian culture and customs. In The Honeyseller, Gopal meets Malati, a runaway girl. Torn between sympathy for her and the trouble she might bring him, we follow Gopal and Malati down the river to a world foreign to modern day westerners. (Short Stories)
Sunday, July 02, 2006
Siblings and you
If you have siblings, this article is worth reading:
Within the scientific community, siblings have not been wholly ignored, but research has been limited mostly to discussions of birth order. Now investigators are looking at ways brothers and sisters steer one another into -- or away from -- risky behavior; how all siblings compete for family recognition and come to terms -- or blows -- over such impossibly charged issues as parental favoritism.
Give the ARGville Forum a try
Join our ARGville Forum. Vent about work, your in-laws, your landlord or roommate. Give advice to others. Come get silly with Stacy, Lee, Irina, Leanne, Tara, and others.
Saturday, July 01, 2006
HPV Vaccine Advised for Girls
Most see this as good news, some have concerns, but this recommendation is most likely to be approved in the USA:
The committee of experts that advises the federal government on immunization policy yesterday recommended that the new vaccine that prevents most cases of cervical cancer be given to all 11- and 12-year-old girls... The human papillomavirus (HPV) vaccine would become the first vaccine against a sexually transmitted disease on the list of immunizations all children should get.


