ARGville

Evette, 29, in Los Angeles: I need some clarification again…
I know that you told me before that guys conversing with people on social networking sites is “silly fantasy stuff” that people engage in to alleviate boredom, but I am feeling a bit hurt and need to know if I am overreacting to this situation.
My boyfriend was messaging a girl he doesn’t know on MySpace. Here is another B=Boy and G=girl conversation.
G: Thanks for the add XOXOXO
B: Nice to meet ya.
G: Awwww nice to meet you too babe. How was your weekend?
B: not bad u?
G: (she was talking about her injured … Continue Reading

Katie, 20, in SD: What does it mean if a guy you have had a thing with sees you leave a party with another guy and asks you about it the next day? Does it mean he is jealous?

VictorM: He could be jealous but asking the question just means he’s curious. It’s a stretch to assume he’s jealous.

Ashley, 20, in California: So, I just started dating this guy about 3 weeks ago, and things are going great. We never fight and have a lot in common, and lots of fun. He tells me he’s really into me and loves being my boyfriend.
However, there is one thing that has been bothering me. He seems to be interested in my roommate.

In the past 2 weeks a couple of things have happened that have made me think this. He’s said she’s pretty, really cool, really funny, really unique, and really, really smart (this usually comes out of the blue..I never … Continue Reading

Allie, 56, in Alabama: I met my boyfriend on line. We have been dating for 6 months. Now I find out his best friend in the world is a beautiful 34 year old woman who is married to his ex step son who is in jail. of course he says it is strictly a platonic relationship. Problem is, she has a key to his house “so she can check on his dog when he works late” and she goes on vacation with him to the beach every year. and plans to go this year even though I am now in … Continue Reading