Saturday, February 06, 2010
I was just thinking it was sex
By: Marie
Age: 30
Location: Seattle
Question: I have slept with this guy a few times and we haven't really "defined" what this relationship is. I was just thinking it was sex, since we both got out of a long-term relationship about 5-6 months ago. Now he won't "see" me until he takes me to dinner. Why? Is he feeling guilty? Does he think its what I want? I am fine with just sex at the moment. I do like him I just dont want to take his actions the wrong way and misread signs.
VictorM's advice:
What is reasons are don't matter; if taking you to dinner first is what he wants to do, enjoy the free meals. And the sex after. Avoid too much garlic.
Age: 30
Location: Seattle
Question: I have slept with this guy a few times and we haven't really "defined" what this relationship is. I was just thinking it was sex, since we both got out of a long-term relationship about 5-6 months ago. Now he won't "see" me until he takes me to dinner. Why? Is he feeling guilty? Does he think its what I want? I am fine with just sex at the moment. I do like him I just dont want to take his actions the wrong way and misread signs.
VictorM's advice:
What is reasons are don't matter; if taking you to dinner first is what he wants to do, enjoy the free meals. And the sex after. Avoid too much garlic.
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Maybe the sex is so great he needs to carb up beforehand?
Don't read too much into it. It's true that sometimes guys like talking to a woman over a nice meal prior to the fucking.
Don't read too much into it. It's true that sometimes guys like talking to a woman over a nice meal prior to the fucking.
# posted by 
: 1:43 AM
: 1:43 AM
Yes, definitely don't read anything into it. I had a sexual partner that loved to wine and dine me before we went back to his place and had sex. It was not a McDonald's dinner either. He enjoyed talking for hours, all the foreplay and expensive dinners. I think it's just what he enjoyed for the most part. But the end result was just the same; sex. There's no signs to misread. Just enjoy it!
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