Saturday, February 06, 2010
he was always wanting to see me
By: JC
Age: 27
Location: USA
Question: ok so i started seeing this guy who was a friend of an ex (I know, big no no). anyways when we started dating he was always wanting to see me. Then a couple of weeks later I had some major things happen in my life and he started getting distant. It started with him not calling me when he said he would. so i just stopped calling and now he calls every few days to see how i'm doing. He says he misses me and wants me to call him more often, but when i call him he's busy and says he will call me back, i won't get a phone call for days i have no plans to call him untill he starts calling more and making dates. i just wanna know if i'm doing the right thing not calling him.
VictorM's advice:
Yes, you're doing the right thing, but sometimes, through no fault of your own, you just cease being a priority in a guy's life, and there's nothing you can do to change that. Seems like that's what happened here. He still sees you from time to time either because he lacks the courage to tell you he's not interested or because he thinks you're a good enough filler to keep around for rainy days.
Keep your options open and date other guys.
Age: 27
Location: USA
Question: ok so i started seeing this guy who was a friend of an ex (I know, big no no). anyways when we started dating he was always wanting to see me. Then a couple of weeks later I had some major things happen in my life and he started getting distant. It started with him not calling me when he said he would. so i just stopped calling and now he calls every few days to see how i'm doing. He says he misses me and wants me to call him more often, but when i call him he's busy and says he will call me back, i won't get a phone call for days i have no plans to call him untill he starts calling more and making dates. i just wanna know if i'm doing the right thing not calling him.
VictorM's advice:
Yes, you're doing the right thing, but sometimes, through no fault of your own, you just cease being a priority in a guy's life, and there's nothing you can do to change that. Seems like that's what happened here. He still sees you from time to time either because he lacks the courage to tell you he's not interested or because he thinks you're a good enough filler to keep around for rainy days.
Keep your options open and date other guys.
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