Tuesday, February 09, 2010
he has a child by another woman
By: angela
Age: 35
Location: chesterfield
Question: I have been seeing this guy for about 2 months and I really like him. The problem is he has a child by another woman. He says that he is not interested in her anymore, but she still considers them to be together. I understand that he loves his son, but he's with him until about 9 or 10:00 p.m. after he picks him up from daycare, etc. and then he stops by to see me. It seems that when we are just chillin his phone rings and he leaves the room to answer it. He only talks for about 3 minutes, but I know that it is her. Should I be worried about him getting back with her? I don't want to get hurt.
VictorM's advice:
I have no idea if he would ever go back with her, but absent more information, I'd take him at his word that he's not interested in her. But, on the other hand, she's going to be in the picture for many, many years.
You can't just have him. She, and their child, are part of the package, whether you like it or not.
Age: 35
Location: chesterfield
Question: I have been seeing this guy for about 2 months and I really like him. The problem is he has a child by another woman. He says that he is not interested in her anymore, but she still considers them to be together. I understand that he loves his son, but he's with him until about 9 or 10:00 p.m. after he picks him up from daycare, etc. and then he stops by to see me. It seems that when we are just chillin his phone rings and he leaves the room to answer it. He only talks for about 3 minutes, but I know that it is her. Should I be worried about him getting back with her? I don't want to get hurt.
VictorM's advice:
I have no idea if he would ever go back with her, but absent more information, I'd take him at his word that he's not interested in her. But, on the other hand, she's going to be in the picture for many, many years.
You can't just have him. She, and their child, are part of the package, whether you like it or not.
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