Friday, March 27, 2009
We flirt with each other almost every day
Submitted on Tuesday, March 24, 2009
By: alyssa morales
Age: 14
Location: fort worth
Question: Ok, so there's a boy and we flirt with each other almost every day. The thing that kinda gets to me is that the day after he does something totally sweet, like hand me his jacket when i'm cold and then the next day i'll see him with his arm around another girl or he's flirting with another girl! It's beyond annoying cuz these mixed signals are driving me insane. I know i make it obvious that i like him, so why is he doing this? My friend says i should just forget him, but i want a guy's point of view. So do you think i should move on or just see what happens? And if i need to keep him then what can i do to make something happen?
VictorM's advice:
Most boys around your age are not into the girlfriend/boyfriend thing yet. They are still in the mode of asserting themselves in their sexual awareness and they do so by flirting with lots of girls. Your guy seems to be such a boy.
The odds that he'll want to have just one girlfriend are very low. I don't know that you need to move on - after all, finding a boy around your age willing to stick with one girl is not easy -- but you may need to lower your expectations.
By: alyssa morales
Age: 14
Location: fort worth
Question: Ok, so there's a boy and we flirt with each other almost every day. The thing that kinda gets to me is that the day after he does something totally sweet, like hand me his jacket when i'm cold and then the next day i'll see him with his arm around another girl or he's flirting with another girl! It's beyond annoying cuz these mixed signals are driving me insane. I know i make it obvious that i like him, so why is he doing this? My friend says i should just forget him, but i want a guy's point of view. So do you think i should move on or just see what happens? And if i need to keep him then what can i do to make something happen?
VictorM's advice:
Most boys around your age are not into the girlfriend/boyfriend thing yet. They are still in the mode of asserting themselves in their sexual awareness and they do so by flirting with lots of girls. Your guy seems to be such a boy.
The odds that he'll want to have just one girlfriend are very low. I don't know that you need to move on - after all, finding a boy around your age willing to stick with one girl is not easy -- but you may need to lower your expectations.
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