Friday, March 27, 2009
He wrote me an email asking if he can come see my new house
Submitted on Tuesday, March 24, 2009
By: ellie
Age: 25
Question: hiii, an important update! please dont block me for asking so many questions. maybe one day i will bring you cookies to say thanks!
so if you remember this guy who called me from nowhere after a month, i did not call him or anything after we spoke, just waited to see what happens. well today, he wrote me an email asking if he can come see my new house (i told him i just moved last time we spoke). why do you think he wrote that? we were never physical with each other before! does he think i am THAT kind of girl or what?
VictorM's advice:
Cookies? What kind? :)
Sounds to me like he's just being polite. Asking if he can come see your house doesn't actually mean that he will come see your house. But if he does, I doubt that he has any ideas about what kind of girl you are. Chances are he's just trying to keep you as an active possibility in his little "black book."
By: ellie
Age: 25
Question: hiii, an important update! please dont block me for asking so many questions. maybe one day i will bring you cookies to say thanks!
so if you remember this guy who called me from nowhere after a month, i did not call him or anything after we spoke, just waited to see what happens. well today, he wrote me an email asking if he can come see my new house (i told him i just moved last time we spoke). why do you think he wrote that? we were never physical with each other before! does he think i am THAT kind of girl or what?
VictorM's advice:
Cookies? What kind? :)
Sounds to me like he's just being polite. Asking if he can come see your house doesn't actually mean that he will come see your house. But if he does, I doubt that he has any ideas about what kind of girl you are. Chances are he's just trying to keep you as an active possibility in his little "black book."
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maybe he would just be polite if he was replying to my message, but he wrote this a week later after we talked about my house. he wrote it on his own without me writing to him first.... like just sent me a message saying that. so do you think he is just looking for an excuse to see me and is hoping i will invite him out or something?
or do you still think the same thing?
or do you still think the same thing?
# posted by 
: 11:30 AM
: 11:30 AM
I still think he doesn't want to burn any bridges. Clearly he's not enough into you, but he sees no point in disappearing. Bottom line is: he's not that interested.
ok so he is not that interested... but listen i am a funny very cool girl! should i invite him over anyway and try to win him with my charms??? just kidding... but really do you think its a waste of time to invite him? sometimes you might not like someone that much but you spend time with them and then you like them better. soooo help me with my evil scheme and tell me what to do!
# posted by : 6:21 PM
: 6:21 PM
You really have nothing to lose. Yes, invite him. The worst he can do is say no, and that's better than not knowing. Go for it.
so of course you were right... i invited him and we set a day and he texted me that day and said he couldn't come because of a valid reason (long story, but i know he wasn't making it up) and asked what i was doing later. i told him and asked what he was doing and he never wrote me back. that was yesterday. so what does that mean? he was just keeping me as a possibility and something better came up? he has ALWAYS written me back and never completely ignored me before. do you think i should just forget him? obviously i wont contact him anymore but what if he contacts me?
# posted by : 2:42 PM
: 2:42 PM
ok one more update. dont kill me! he wrote back the next day and said so sorry i never got back to you. hope we can still try again. and i wrote back, its ok, dont worry, maybe another time. what do you think? should i just forget him?
# posted by : 11:27 AM
: 11:27 AM
I'm going to repeat myself:
I still think he doesn't want to burn any bridges. Clearly he's not enough into you, but he sees no point in disappearing. Bottom line is: he's not that interested.
yes, forget him. Move on. You're wasting your time and your energy.
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I still think he doesn't want to burn any bridges. Clearly he's not enough into you, but he sees no point in disappearing. Bottom line is: he's not that interested.
yes, forget him. Move on. You're wasting your time and your energy.
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