Saturday, March 28, 2009
He wanted to take me out on a Friday or Saturday
Submitted on Wednesday, March 25, 2009
By: mysty
Age: 36
Location: washington
Question: After going out on a great date with this guy, he texted me on my way home and told me he had a great time but that next time he wanted to take me out on a Friday or Saturday so he could keep me out longer. The next morning he texted me and said maybe he could see me before I left on work travel. I said I'd like that. He kept texting me but never mentioned getting together again. Five days later when I was on my way out of town he texted me and said he hoped I had a safe flight and he would see me when I got back. He knew I was getting back on Friday but I didn't get a text from him on Friday or during the weekend and I didn't text him. On Monday he texted me saying good morning - are you back? I told him I was going out of town again until Wednesday. He wrote that he was signing up for a lot of volunteer work, and had something on Saturday, however, he did want to see me again. He again told me he wanted it to be Friday or Saturday. I said okay see you when I get back! It is Wednesday, he knows I'm back and he just writes me I hope to see you soon and I can't wait to see you but doesn't ask me out. I'm not sure why he says he wants to see me if he doesn't ask me out. Is he waiting for me to ask him or is he not sure if he wants to really see me??
VictorM's advice:
A few comments:
-- He prefers to see you on Fridays and Saturdays -- that doesn't mean this Friday or this Saturday, or any particular Friday or Saturday. He could have other commitments already. He'll most likely call you when he's free.
-- While he may be the only guy in your life, you may not be the only girl he likes seeing on the weekend. When guys are in a dating phase, they like to date as many girls as possible. Sometimes fitting them in is a juggling act. If that's the case here, you have to wait your turn.
-- He may very well want to see you again, but "I really want to see you again" is a boiler plate statement made after dates. It's like "have a great day," "take care," "see you soon," etc. It's kind of a polite thing to say because you want to part company on a good note. It's really not a promise.
By: mysty
Age: 36
Location: washington
Question: After going out on a great date with this guy, he texted me on my way home and told me he had a great time but that next time he wanted to take me out on a Friday or Saturday so he could keep me out longer. The next morning he texted me and said maybe he could see me before I left on work travel. I said I'd like that. He kept texting me but never mentioned getting together again. Five days later when I was on my way out of town he texted me and said he hoped I had a safe flight and he would see me when I got back. He knew I was getting back on Friday but I didn't get a text from him on Friday or during the weekend and I didn't text him. On Monday he texted me saying good morning - are you back? I told him I was going out of town again until Wednesday. He wrote that he was signing up for a lot of volunteer work, and had something on Saturday, however, he did want to see me again. He again told me he wanted it to be Friday or Saturday. I said okay see you when I get back! It is Wednesday, he knows I'm back and he just writes me I hope to see you soon and I can't wait to see you but doesn't ask me out. I'm not sure why he says he wants to see me if he doesn't ask me out. Is he waiting for me to ask him or is he not sure if he wants to really see me??
VictorM's advice:
A few comments:
-- He prefers to see you on Fridays and Saturdays -- that doesn't mean this Friday or this Saturday, or any particular Friday or Saturday. He could have other commitments already. He'll most likely call you when he's free.
-- While he may be the only guy in your life, you may not be the only girl he likes seeing on the weekend. When guys are in a dating phase, they like to date as many girls as possible. Sometimes fitting them in is a juggling act. If that's the case here, you have to wait your turn.
-- He may very well want to see you again, but "I really want to see you again" is a boiler plate statement made after dates. It's like "have a great day," "take care," "see you soon," etc. It's kind of a polite thing to say because you want to part company on a good note. It's really not a promise.
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Okay i have this problem see me and my boyfriend has just started dating and our senior prom is coming up in a few weeks, well hes already taken someone and he didn't bother to tell me until yesterday. what should i do- tell him that i don't want him to go to prom with her and i want him to go with me, Be mad at him for telling me so late or break up with him??
# posted by 
: 12:29 PM
: 12:29 PM
He had committed to going with the girl BEFORE you two became a couple? If this is so, I think it's only appropriate that he keep his commitment.
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