Friday, February 27, 2009
A general question
Submitted on Tuesday, February 24, 2009
By: Pam
Age: 19
Location: TX
Question: Hey, I have a general question. Let's say a guy likes you... a lot! Then say you are going out with him for a while and it seems like he's losing interest, not contacting you first, even saying he can't hang out sometimes. Could it be because he thinks you don't like him enough? Or do guys never think that way? And would he act colder toward you because of that? Or if he acts colder and seems like he lost interest, is it just that simple?
VictorM's advice:
1. Guys can cease to like a girl for the smallest of reasons. Example: My son had a crush on this girl. One day I asked him how it was going with her and he said he had lost interest in her. I asked why. He explained that they had gone on a field trip and on the way back on the bus she fell asleep and started drooling a little. That drool was enough to turn him off. Now, some will say that's superficial of him. I'll argue that it's not; it's a reflection of a superficial attraction.
2. A guy can really like a girl and act cold and indifferent to her. That's done to catch her attention and gauge her interest in him. This is a very common tactic by guys. And it usually works too.
But in your case, I think he simply has gotten over you. He's not into you anymore.
By: Pam
Age: 19
Location: TX
Question: Hey, I have a general question. Let's say a guy likes you... a lot! Then say you are going out with him for a while and it seems like he's losing interest, not contacting you first, even saying he can't hang out sometimes. Could it be because he thinks you don't like him enough? Or do guys never think that way? And would he act colder toward you because of that? Or if he acts colder and seems like he lost interest, is it just that simple?
VictorM's advice:
1. Guys can cease to like a girl for the smallest of reasons. Example: My son had a crush on this girl. One day I asked him how it was going with her and he said he had lost interest in her. I asked why. He explained that they had gone on a field trip and on the way back on the bus she fell asleep and started drooling a little. That drool was enough to turn him off. Now, some will say that's superficial of him. I'll argue that it's not; it's a reflection of a superficial attraction.
2. A guy can really like a girl and act cold and indifferent to her. That's done to catch her attention and gauge her interest in him. This is a very common tactic by guys. And it usually works too.
But in your case, I think he simply has gotten over you. He's not into you anymore.
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