Wednesday, January 28, 2009
I can cancel the flight
Submitted on Tuesday, January 27, 2009
By: Samantha
Age: 48
Location: DC
Question: I have seen this guy for 3 months and he went on leave for a month. While we were talking when he was on leave he asked when I was going to visit him again. I went ahead and made flight arrangements to see him 4 weeks after he returned. A week ago he asked me if the reason that I was coming was to see him--I said yes but might take advantage of the opportunity being there and see my Dad's significant other for a minute. Two days before leaving. I asked him to reaffirm the arrangement if he remembered that I was coming to see him. He said don't make coming to see me the reason for your trip. We went back and forth for a minute. I told him that I can cancel the flight. He said for me to call at the same time tomorrow. Should I cancel my flight and drop him?
VictorM's advice:
I would have canceled a minute after I heard this: "don't make coming to see me the reason for your trip."
By: Samantha
Age: 48
Location: DC
Question: I have seen this guy for 3 months and he went on leave for a month. While we were talking when he was on leave he asked when I was going to visit him again. I went ahead and made flight arrangements to see him 4 weeks after he returned. A week ago he asked me if the reason that I was coming was to see him--I said yes but might take advantage of the opportunity being there and see my Dad's significant other for a minute. Two days before leaving. I asked him to reaffirm the arrangement if he remembered that I was coming to see him. He said don't make coming to see me the reason for your trip. We went back and forth for a minute. I told him that I can cancel the flight. He said for me to call at the same time tomorrow. Should I cancel my flight and drop him?
VictorM's advice:
I would have canceled a minute after I heard this: "don't make coming to see me the reason for your trip."
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