Thursday, January 29, 2009
He was becoming really distant
Submitted on Wednesday, January 28, 2009
By: Tanya
Age: 23
Location: New York
Question: I recently broke up with my boyfriend because he was becoming really distant and almost avoiding the situation all together. When I did talk to him and express how I was feeling which was I liked him but things were rocky and I didn't know if we could start fresh and forgive and forget? He agreed with me and said he feels the same way. Then when I tried to talk to him the following day I ended things with him, and asked if he just wanted to say bye? he took it as just for that day and said yes because he already told me what he was doing and then and asked no for good and he said ya... that's fine with him.
My questions are:
1) Am I wasting my time, does he actually have feelings for me?
2) Is it possible to rekindle anything with him?
VictorM's advice:
It's not easy to let go, but it's over. When the way to deal with problems is distance and avoidance, the signs are clear that there is no interest.
Move on.
By: Tanya
Age: 23
Location: New York
Question: I recently broke up with my boyfriend because he was becoming really distant and almost avoiding the situation all together. When I did talk to him and express how I was feeling which was I liked him but things were rocky and I didn't know if we could start fresh and forgive and forget? He agreed with me and said he feels the same way. Then when I tried to talk to him the following day I ended things with him, and asked if he just wanted to say bye? he took it as just for that day and said yes because he already told me what he was doing and then and asked no for good and he said ya... that's fine with him.
My questions are:
1) Am I wasting my time, does he actually have feelings for me?
2) Is it possible to rekindle anything with him?
VictorM's advice:
It's not easy to let go, but it's over. When the way to deal with problems is distance and avoidance, the signs are clear that there is no interest.
Move on.
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