Wednesday, January 28, 2009
He started holding my hand in front of his friends
Submitted on Tuesday, January 27, 2009
By: Melanie
Age: 20
Location: Kansas
Question: So there was a guy that I used to make out with at parties. He wasn't a one girl type of guy. A few months ago he told me he didn't want a girlfriend and when I'd spend the night he'd pressure me to do things I didn't want to (and wouldn't do) but still cuddle and kiss me on the forehead in the morning. We haven't seen each other in a few weeks and he's been talking to me every day. When we met up, he started holding my hand in front of his friends (he had never done that before) and putting his arm around me and surprised me with something (a tiny detail I didn't think he'd remember). I spent the night and he didn't pressure me to do anything I didn't want to. After doing morning errands we went back to his room and talked, and he kept holding my hand. He was never this caring before, especially not publicly. Does this show a change of mind?
VictorM's advice:
Such a big change after only a few months? Well, yes, it could very well mean that he changed his mind about you, but I'm more inclined to believe that it could just be a change in strategy.
Why do I say this? Because a party make-out girl isn't likely the one a guy is going to want to be serious about. On the other hand, you did resist his advances. So... you never know. I'd say: proceed with caution.
By: Melanie
Age: 20
Location: Kansas
Question: So there was a guy that I used to make out with at parties. He wasn't a one girl type of guy. A few months ago he told me he didn't want a girlfriend and when I'd spend the night he'd pressure me to do things I didn't want to (and wouldn't do) but still cuddle and kiss me on the forehead in the morning. We haven't seen each other in a few weeks and he's been talking to me every day. When we met up, he started holding my hand in front of his friends (he had never done that before) and putting his arm around me and surprised me with something (a tiny detail I didn't think he'd remember). I spent the night and he didn't pressure me to do anything I didn't want to. After doing morning errands we went back to his room and talked, and he kept holding my hand. He was never this caring before, especially not publicly. Does this show a change of mind?
VictorM's advice:
Such a big change after only a few months? Well, yes, it could very well mean that he changed his mind about you, but I'm more inclined to believe that it could just be a change in strategy.
Why do I say this? Because a party make-out girl isn't likely the one a guy is going to want to be serious about. On the other hand, you did resist his advances. So... you never know. I'd say: proceed with caution.
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