Friday, October 31, 2008
He's had the hots for me
Submitted on Tuesday, October 28, 2008
By Leigh, 27, from Georgia:
A guy told me that he's had the hots for me for 10 years. Three (3) months ago he broke up with his girlfriend of 4 years. How do I make him want a relationship with me?
VictorM's advice:
I hope you realize that having the hots for you and wanting a relationship with you are two totally different things.
He just broke up a 4 year relationship, so he may not be eager to jump into another right away. That's not to say he wouldn't want to have sex with you, but if you want something serious with him you should develop a relationship that goes beyond your looks. And above all, give him time to get the ex out of his system.
Unless he thinks of you as more than just hot, you don't stand much of a chance. For now, be friendly, compliment him from time to time, and see where it leads.
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