Friday, October 31, 2008
He was nice and talkative and outgoing
Submitted on Tuesday, October 28, 2008
By jen, 19, from nyu:
so there is this guy in my college class. i am getting mixed signals. when we first met he was nice and talkative and outgoing. I showed some interest back, but not much because i am shy. Now he hardly speaks to me, or returns any contact i make. when we do speak he gets all quiet and speaks softly OR cockily. I also catch him staring at me a lot but he wont speak to me unless i do first. Now he sheepishly avoids me. i thought he liked me, Now i dont know how to tell for sure. he doesn't show it right out but his body language does. should i ignore him for a while?
VictorM's advice:
There's a good chance he liked you, and maybe still like you, but most people don't like rejection, and that's probably the signs he got from you.
Ignoring him is the worst thing you can do now. It's time for you to smile, greet him nicely, and make an effort to talk to him.
If you stop sending him mixed signals, you might stop receiving mixed signals from him.
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