Tuesday, October 28, 2008
He never called back
Submitted on Saturday, October 25, 2008
By Marea, 21, from New York CIty:
I have been flirting with this guy for a few weeks, we hooked up once but it wasn't sex. We've made some plans to hang out and they kept falling through, and then finally he made plans for one night and when I called him, he never called back and I haven't heard from him since. What is going on in his mind?
VictorM's advice:
I've discussed recently how New York City can be brutal for girls because guys have so many options. I'm living in NYC right now and can see the abundance of females in and around the city.
It sounds to me that this guy may be juggling more than one girl at a time and makes decisions at the last minute based on who's available, according to his priority list. Sounds like you may not be at the top of that list.
One other observation about NYC: the abundance I speak of isn't limited to girls. There are a lot of guys to date. Don't limit yourself to one guy; you have lots of options too.
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