Tuesday, October 28, 2008
He doesn't want a girlfriend
Submitted on Monday, October 27, 2008
By Sandy, 14, from California:
There's this guy I met at school who I've known for 3 months and who I really like. We are really good friends but I just realized I have feelings for him about 2 weeks ago. We have a lot in common and he thinks I'm funny and he's told me I'm cute. The problem is he's told me a couple of times that he doesn't want a girlfriend because of his last relationship. I don't really know what happened, but he says that he realized that girlfriends just make things too complicated. I know he’s being honest about that because he told me that a little before I even liked him. I don't know whether or not I should give up because he'll occasionally put his arm around me or hold my hand for about 30 seconds before letting go. I've noticed that he's really friendly to other girls (for example, hugs them and picks them up a lot), but I've never seen him as affectionate to other people as he is to me. The last thing I want to do is pressure him into a relationship if he really doesn’t want one. Am I just a friend to him or does he have feelings for me? Could you please help me?
Thank you
Thank you
VictorM's advice:
He can say all he wants that he's not looking for a girlfriend, but he doesn't control his heart. If he falls for you, all bets are off. Just stay friendly, stay cute, stay funny, and he'll eventually forget all about whatever happened before.
Cute, funny girls have magical healing powers.
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