Friday, October 31, 2008
Am I wasting my time?
Submitted on Tuesday, October 28, 2008
By Angie, 28:
My boyfriend is 13 years older than me, never been married. We've been dating for over a year now and everything is going really well. We get along great we have a ton of fun and he brings out the best in me. and here it comes, BUT he has always been a little guarded of his "alone time." We usually just hang out 1 night during the week and I never sleep over, I understand that part, he has to get up early for work. But lately we have only been seeing each other on the weekends. This week I am gone Wed and Thur for work so I wanted to just hang out a little on Tue. He said no, he needed some down time and that we just saw each other on Sun and we will hang out on Fri or he says, we can hang out Tue but not on Fri and then continues to say that we don't need to hang out every dang night. Is 3 nights out of the week every night? Is he never going to want to see me more than 3 days a week? Am I wasting my time if I'm thinking that this man would ever want to get married?
VictorM's advice:
You can't say he hasn't been direct with you. Clearly, you are on different pages when it comes to expectations.
I think you know the answer to your questions but if all you're looking for is confirmation, here it goes: he likes things exactly as they are and marriage to you is not on his radar. He may want to get married some day, but not with you. That much is clear.
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