Friday, September 26, 2008
He didn't want to go exclusive
Submitted on Tuesday, September 23, 2008
By Belle, 36, from los angeles:
We dated for 8 months until I decided to move on as he didn't want to go exclusive. He emails me once a month and I politely reply. He asked me through a common friend if I'd be open to go out with him. I said no and that he should move on as well. Why can't he call and ask me? Does he want to go exclusive with me or just checking to see if I would cave in?
VictorM's advice:
Sounds like he knew what your answer would be and this way he didn't have to face you. But this might also have been a spur of the moment kinda thing when talking to the common friend. Maybe he just asked in a rhetorical kinda way. Either way, he sounds as uncommitted as he ever was.
By Belle, 36, from los angeles:
We dated for 8 months until I decided to move on as he didn't want to go exclusive. He emails me once a month and I politely reply. He asked me through a common friend if I'd be open to go out with him. I said no and that he should move on as well. Why can't he call and ask me? Does he want to go exclusive with me or just checking to see if I would cave in?
VictorM's advice:
Sounds like he knew what your answer would be and this way he didn't have to face you. But this might also have been a spur of the moment kinda thing when talking to the common friend. Maybe he just asked in a rhetorical kinda way. Either way, he sounds as uncommitted as he ever was.
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