Thursday, September 25, 2008
He asked me if he could kiss me
Submitted on Monday, September 22, 2008
By Mia, 25, from Des Moines, IA:
Alright Victor, I need some advice. I'm not the best at reading men, hence the reason I sought you out. Here goes: Was out for drinks a few months back and ran into some friends, a guy by the name of Sam was asking my friend about me and gave her his card to give to me. I told her if he was interested in me, to give him my phone number and he could contact me. We ended up texting that night and he came to meet up a friend of mine and I later that night. To be honest, I was pretty tipsy and was busy socializing and didn't pay much attention to him. He ended up hooking up with my friend that night. I did go on a drink date with him a week or so later but I wasn't all that interested in him for obvious reasons. He would text every few weeks to say hi and I would write him back and that's been it. This was months ago. I ran into him recently and I was much more attracted to him now than I ever was before and we seemed to click more. Plus, I'm over the whole him hooking up with my friend thing, she lives in a different state and I don't talk to her much anyway. I sent him a text saying we should hang out, a few nights later he invited me out with his friends and I met up with them. He asked me if he could kiss me and I turned him down because I would like to get to know him a bit before I decide whether or not I want anything to get physical. Plus, I've heard he is a player and I want to be cautious. I didn't want him to think I wasn't interested, so I sent him a text the next day telling him I am interested in getting to know him more and that I think he is cute.
I haven't heard from him, and, to be honest, when he was with his friends he didn't really seem too interested in me, i.e. didn't really strike up a conversation, or seem like he was interested in getting to know me, etc.
Is this guy just trying to get laid or what? Or am I just analyzing things way too much like I always do? Thanks Victor.
VictorM's advice:
I don't think much analysis is needed here. He asked you for a kiss and you let him know you're not going to be easy. And so he's basically done with you. Confirms his "player" status.
See? Guys are pretty simple to figure out, after all.
By Mia, 25, from Des Moines, IA:
Alright Victor, I need some advice. I'm not the best at reading men, hence the reason I sought you out. Here goes: Was out for drinks a few months back and ran into some friends, a guy by the name of Sam was asking my friend about me and gave her his card to give to me. I told her if he was interested in me, to give him my phone number and he could contact me. We ended up texting that night and he came to meet up a friend of mine and I later that night. To be honest, I was pretty tipsy and was busy socializing and didn't pay much attention to him. He ended up hooking up with my friend that night. I did go on a drink date with him a week or so later but I wasn't all that interested in him for obvious reasons. He would text every few weeks to say hi and I would write him back and that's been it. This was months ago. I ran into him recently and I was much more attracted to him now than I ever was before and we seemed to click more. Plus, I'm over the whole him hooking up with my friend thing, she lives in a different state and I don't talk to her much anyway. I sent him a text saying we should hang out, a few nights later he invited me out with his friends and I met up with them. He asked me if he could kiss me and I turned him down because I would like to get to know him a bit before I decide whether or not I want anything to get physical. Plus, I've heard he is a player and I want to be cautious. I didn't want him to think I wasn't interested, so I sent him a text the next day telling him I am interested in getting to know him more and that I think he is cute.
I haven't heard from him, and, to be honest, when he was with his friends he didn't really seem too interested in me, i.e. didn't really strike up a conversation, or seem like he was interested in getting to know me, etc.
Is this guy just trying to get laid or what? Or am I just analyzing things way too much like I always do? Thanks Victor.
VictorM's advice:
I don't think much analysis is needed here. He asked you for a kiss and you let him know you're not going to be easy. And so he's basically done with you. Confirms his "player" status.
See? Guys are pretty simple to figure out, after all.
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