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Monday, July 28, 2008
Lover on steroids
Submitted on Monday, July 21, 2008
By ALANA, 21:
OH MY GOODNESS... Okay, so, i'm done and over with the situation with "M". YOu know that story. Now with "T"..the "lover on steroids".. -the guy who spoils me ROTTEN, calls when he says he'll call, email's when he says he will, buys me tremendous amounts of gifts, takes me out to eat, to watch movies, he spends a shitload on me, and has stated all these "i wanna be with you" "i don't wanna lose you" "ur special to me" "i don't wanna fuck this up" ETC..... but ANYWAY...
I just found out from a trusted and CLOSE friend of mine (who also happens to work on the same ship as "T")... he witnessed "T" trying to get with another girl. My TRUSTED friend talked to THAT GIRL, and found out some information that I'm not too happy with... In other words... "T" is a little cheater.
I am sooo happy that I didn't give "T" SHIT! I did NOTHING sexual with him, and I am soo glad I had my guard up! I can't express how IMPORTANT it is to TRUST YOUR GUT when you feel that something is just..."not right".... this "T" was just TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE... I had a feeling it was like that... and my goodness, it WAS!!! Where are all the genuinely good guys?? I thought "T" was a genuinely good guy! Well..he WAS moving a little too fast in the beginning...and I WAS a little sketchy about that. What should i DO?? Should I confront him about what I know once he gets back from being underway? Or should I stay in this and suck him dry of his gold for the hell of it (without me giving anything)??
What do you think V??
VictorM's advice:
How cool... I'm on a first letter basis. :)
Be done with T. Yes, he sounded too good to be true. So what do you do? You move on.
Finding good guys is not an easy task, but they are out there. You just have to focus your energy to finding one instead of spending it with T. He's got nothing but more empty promises and bullshit for you.
By ALANA, 21:
OH MY GOODNESS... Okay, so, i'm done and over with the situation with "M". YOu know that story. Now with "T"..the "lover on steroids".. -the guy who spoils me ROTTEN, calls when he says he'll call, email's when he says he will, buys me tremendous amounts of gifts, takes me out to eat, to watch movies, he spends a shitload on me, and has stated all these "i wanna be with you" "i don't wanna lose you" "ur special to me" "i don't wanna fuck this up" ETC..... but ANYWAY...
I just found out from a trusted and CLOSE friend of mine (who also happens to work on the same ship as "T")... he witnessed "T" trying to get with another girl. My TRUSTED friend talked to THAT GIRL, and found out some information that I'm not too happy with... In other words... "T" is a little cheater.
I am sooo happy that I didn't give "T" SHIT! I did NOTHING sexual with him, and I am soo glad I had my guard up! I can't express how IMPORTANT it is to TRUST YOUR GUT when you feel that something is just..."not right".... this "T" was just TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE... I had a feeling it was like that... and my goodness, it WAS!!! Where are all the genuinely good guys?? I thought "T" was a genuinely good guy! Well..he WAS moving a little too fast in the beginning...and I WAS a little sketchy about that. What should i DO?? Should I confront him about what I know once he gets back from being underway? Or should I stay in this and suck him dry of his gold for the hell of it (without me giving anything)??
What do you think V??
VictorM's advice:
How cool... I'm on a first letter basis. :)
Be done with T. Yes, he sounded too good to be true. So what do you do? You move on.
Finding good guys is not an easy task, but they are out there. You just have to focus your energy to finding one instead of spending it with T. He's got nothing but more empty promises and bullshit for you.
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