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Thursday, July 31, 2008
I met this guy online
Submitted on Monday, July 28, 2008
By sarah, 19, from new Hampshire:
Ok I met this guy online, and we have met in person he is really awsome and we are always texting and talking on the the phone, and we see each other a lot. Sometimes he will ask me: "hey have you found any other boy toys online?" Then he will say its none of his business, and he doesn't care. What does he mean by this?
VictorM's advice:
He's telling you what he thinks of himself (a boy toy) but you're too in the haze of his awesomeness to notice.
When he assumes that other guys contacting you would only be interested in being a toy, he's projecting. That is, he projects his own motives onto the motives of others.
I don't know... just a wild guess, but this guy may not be as awesome as you make him out to be.
By sarah, 19, from new Hampshire:
Ok I met this guy online, and we have met in person he is really awsome and we are always texting and talking on the the phone, and we see each other a lot. Sometimes he will ask me: "hey have you found any other boy toys online?" Then he will say its none of his business, and he doesn't care. What does he mean by this?
VictorM's advice:
He's telling you what he thinks of himself (a boy toy) but you're too in the haze of his awesomeness to notice.
When he assumes that other guys contacting you would only be interested in being a toy, he's projecting. That is, he projects his own motives onto the motives of others.
I don't know... just a wild guess, but this guy may not be as awesome as you make him out to be.
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