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Wednesday, July 23, 2008
I have been playing it kind of cool
Submitted on Thursday, July 17, 2008
By Jane, 22, from USA:
There's this guy i kind of liked. I have been playing it kind of cool, you know not texting him, not really flirting with him or anything, mainly because i don't want to get hurt, (and also because i have some major doubts about him). This is because i am pretty sure that he is not over his ex (even though she now lives in an entirely different country). For a while i thought that he liked me, he would do things like tuck my hair behind my ears and say 'let me see that beautiful face', and would come round and hang out etc. We went out drinking with some friends the other night, and things seemeed to go really well, you know, he seemed interested and even after the other friends left we still stayed out, but the thing is that after the weekend he updated his relationship status to down for whatever, and wrote something about how do you know if you have met the right girl etc. so im guessing that there never was any interest? that i'm imagining it?
VictorM's advice:
I have no idea if he's interested in you or not, but jumping to any conclusions from what you stated makes no sense at all to me. None of it reflects on what he might or might not think of you. I think you're just letting your super protective guard cloud your judgment.
By Jane, 22, from USA:
There's this guy i kind of liked. I have been playing it kind of cool, you know not texting him, not really flirting with him or anything, mainly because i don't want to get hurt, (and also because i have some major doubts about him). This is because i am pretty sure that he is not over his ex (even though she now lives in an entirely different country). For a while i thought that he liked me, he would do things like tuck my hair behind my ears and say 'let me see that beautiful face', and would come round and hang out etc. We went out drinking with some friends the other night, and things seemeed to go really well, you know, he seemed interested and even after the other friends left we still stayed out, but the thing is that after the weekend he updated his relationship status to down for whatever, and wrote something about how do you know if you have met the right girl etc. so im guessing that there never was any interest? that i'm imagining it?
VictorM's advice:
I have no idea if he's interested in you or not, but jumping to any conclusions from what you stated makes no sense at all to me. None of it reflects on what he might or might not think of you. I think you're just letting your super protective guard cloud your judgment.
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