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Monday, July 28, 2008
Busy professional man
Submitted on Monday, July 21, 2008
By DEBBIE, 45, from SAVANNAH:
I have been seeing a very busy professional man (CIO for a company) for three months. Very nice, we go to plays, musicals, dinner, walks, riding harleys etc. But he seldom calls. Just when he has free time. I feel things are going slow. He hasn’t said we are dating, but he or I are not seeing anyone else. Is slow good? And is not calling everyday slow or lack of interest?
VictorM's advice:
Guys generally can't multi-task. A successful man like your guy probably focus on his work when he's working and nothing else. That may not be what you want, but he's just being a typical guy. His lack of contacting you as often as you'd like is not a reflection of his feelings for you.
Guys also prefer to go into a relationship at a much slower pace than females do. So again, his behavior is consistent with that of a typical guy.
Ultimately, you have to decide if you can live with this behavior because the odds that he'll change are remote.
By DEBBIE, 45, from SAVANNAH:
I have been seeing a very busy professional man (CIO for a company) for three months. Very nice, we go to plays, musicals, dinner, walks, riding harleys etc. But he seldom calls. Just when he has free time. I feel things are going slow. He hasn’t said we are dating, but he or I are not seeing anyone else. Is slow good? And is not calling everyday slow or lack of interest?
VictorM's advice:
Guys generally can't multi-task. A successful man like your guy probably focus on his work when he's working and nothing else. That may not be what you want, but he's just being a typical guy. His lack of contacting you as often as you'd like is not a reflection of his feelings for you.
Guys also prefer to go into a relationship at a much slower pace than females do. So again, his behavior is consistent with that of a typical guy.
Ultimately, you have to decide if you can live with this behavior because the odds that he'll change are remote.
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