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Sunday, June 22, 2008
He is being super nice to me
Submitted on Thursday, June 19, 2008
By kara, 21, from california:
I have a new "friend with benefits," however, he is being super nice to me and I don't know if he's falling for me or buttering me up. He wants to take me on an actual date, hangs out with me without sex (even though our origional intent was to be "fuck buddies") he also calls me at least once a day to see how I'm doing, and calls me pet names like "sweetie" "cutie" etc. Is he buttering me up for more sex, falling for me, none of the above?
VictorM's advice:
Doesn't sound like you're the type of girl that needs more buttering up to have sex.
Is he falling for you? I doubt it. Guys usually don't fall for fuck buddies.
I'm guessing he thinks it's fine for him to just want sex, but not for you. He likes you enough to want to find a way to fuck you and still respect you, so adding some normal dating aspects to your arrangement makes him deal with the situation better. Makes it seem more, you know... normal.
Sounds to me like he's more uncomfortable with the "friends with benefits" deal than you are.
By kara, 21, from california:
I have a new "friend with benefits," however, he is being super nice to me and I don't know if he's falling for me or buttering me up. He wants to take me on an actual date, hangs out with me without sex (even though our origional intent was to be "fuck buddies") he also calls me at least once a day to see how I'm doing, and calls me pet names like "sweetie" "cutie" etc. Is he buttering me up for more sex, falling for me, none of the above?
VictorM's advice:
Doesn't sound like you're the type of girl that needs more buttering up to have sex.
Is he falling for you? I doubt it. Guys usually don't fall for fuck buddies.
I'm guessing he thinks it's fine for him to just want sex, but not for you. He likes you enough to want to find a way to fuck you and still respect you, so adding some normal dating aspects to your arrangement makes him deal with the situation better. Makes it seem more, you know... normal.
Sounds to me like he's more uncomfortable with the "friends with benefits" deal than you are.
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