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Thursday, June 19, 2008
Does playing hard to get work?
Submitted on Saturday, June 14, 2008
By Lynn, 30, from Thailand:
When it comes to attracting a guy, does playing hard to get work? Or if you tell him that you just want friendship when in actual fact you want a relationship. Does that make him more attracted to you?
VictorM's advice:
Playing hard to get works when the guy likes you and you just want to make sure you're a challenge to him so he doesn't take you for granted. But if the guy isn't paying you too much attention, then playing hard to get isn't going to help you.
Girls like to get into a relationship and then getting to know the guy; guys like to getting to know the girl before getting into a relationship. So signaling that you're not desperate to get him into a ball and chain is more likely to allow him to wanting to get to know you.
Feeling attracted to someone isn't about the other person but how that person makes you feel about yourself. Make a guy feel smart, funny, and sexy, and he'll want to be around you.
By Lynn, 30, from Thailand:
When it comes to attracting a guy, does playing hard to get work? Or if you tell him that you just want friendship when in actual fact you want a relationship. Does that make him more attracted to you?
VictorM's advice:
Playing hard to get works when the guy likes you and you just want to make sure you're a challenge to him so he doesn't take you for granted. But if the guy isn't paying you too much attention, then playing hard to get isn't going to help you.
Girls like to get into a relationship and then getting to know the guy; guys like to getting to know the girl before getting into a relationship. So signaling that you're not desperate to get him into a ball and chain is more likely to allow him to wanting to get to know you.
Feeling attracted to someone isn't about the other person but how that person makes you feel about yourself. Make a guy feel smart, funny, and sexy, and he'll want to be around you.
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