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Wednesday, June 25, 2008
Does he want to be friends with me?
Submitted on Monday, June 23, 2008
By kris, 27, from New York:
I'm a 25 year old female married for 3 years and I flirted with my co-worker (good friend) for few weeks--we went out, kissed, but no sex. He has feelings for me and knows that I'm married too. But recently he told me he felt guilty and all of sudden stop talking to me without saying anything to me. So I tried to talk to him, but he said he doesn't like attachments. I said I'm sorry for whatever happend and are we still friends? And he was sorry too and he said only if I wasn't married. I said I will never bother him, but now he kinda talks to me and gives me nice compliments. Does he still like me? Does he want to be friends with me? I rather have his friendship then anything else. Should I try to be his friend again?
VictorM's advice:
Between the two of you, at least he had some decency to recognize a mistake.
If he has feelings for you, being just your friend will not be pleasant for him. That is why he's trying to put some distance between you two while remaining civil and friendly. And if you could think of anyone but yourself for a moment, you'd respect that.
By kris, 27, from New York:
I'm a 25 year old female married for 3 years and I flirted with my co-worker (good friend) for few weeks--we went out, kissed, but no sex. He has feelings for me and knows that I'm married too. But recently he told me he felt guilty and all of sudden stop talking to me without saying anything to me. So I tried to talk to him, but he said he doesn't like attachments. I said I'm sorry for whatever happend and are we still friends? And he was sorry too and he said only if I wasn't married. I said I will never bother him, but now he kinda talks to me and gives me nice compliments. Does he still like me? Does he want to be friends with me? I rather have his friendship then anything else. Should I try to be his friend again?
VictorM's advice:
Between the two of you, at least he had some decency to recognize a mistake.
If he has feelings for you, being just your friend will not be pleasant for him. That is why he's trying to put some distance between you two while remaining civil and friendly. And if you could think of anyone but yourself for a moment, you'd respect that.
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