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Friday, May 16, 2008
When we came back he made his move and kissed me
Submitted on Wednesday, May 14, 2008
By MICHELLE, 25, from MORENO VALLEY, CA:
So there is this guy that at first I thought was very interested in me but always said oh we should go watch a movie but we never really end up doing anything. Finally I gave him my number and he called. We talked every day and then now it's only when I call. He is 6 yrs older than me. I'm mature for my age so we have a lot in common. He recently had lasik surgery and I took him we slept on the same bed but nothing happened he didn't try to make a move but also he was sedated. but he treated me like if we were dating that whole weekend. Then finally when we came back he made his move and kissed me. He wanted more but I didn't want to rush things. Now when I talk to him he's not as energetic when I used to see him. What do you think is going on? I still talk to him like always. He is not the type to be a player. From what I know he's a very mellow guy. Doesn't drink, doesn't party. family oriented, and just got out of a serious relationship about 8 months ago.
VictorM's advice:
Well, you put the brakes on his advance towards you, so he's slowed down. Besides, it's normal for the intensity of the first few days or weeks to drop a few notches. He's more secure about where you two stand and therefore there's more calmness now.
Of course, he could be losing interest in you but why think negative thoughts?
By MICHELLE, 25, from MORENO VALLEY, CA:
So there is this guy that at first I thought was very interested in me but always said oh we should go watch a movie but we never really end up doing anything. Finally I gave him my number and he called. We talked every day and then now it's only when I call. He is 6 yrs older than me. I'm mature for my age so we have a lot in common. He recently had lasik surgery and I took him we slept on the same bed but nothing happened he didn't try to make a move but also he was sedated. but he treated me like if we were dating that whole weekend. Then finally when we came back he made his move and kissed me. He wanted more but I didn't want to rush things. Now when I talk to him he's not as energetic when I used to see him. What do you think is going on? I still talk to him like always. He is not the type to be a player. From what I know he's a very mellow guy. Doesn't drink, doesn't party. family oriented, and just got out of a serious relationship about 8 months ago.
VictorM's advice:
Well, you put the brakes on his advance towards you, so he's slowed down. Besides, it's normal for the intensity of the first few days or weeks to drop a few notches. He's more secure about where you two stand and therefore there's more calmness now.
Of course, he could be losing interest in you but why think negative thoughts?
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Hmmmm. Guy starts out not really interested, then starts calling a lot. You take guy for eye surgery and dote on him all weekend. He kissed you and wanted more. Then he returns back to how he was in the beginning. Not really interested.
Sounds like he just wanted a mommy while he had the big scary eye surgery.
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Sounds like he just wanted a mommy while he had the big scary eye surgery.
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