At our last dance, he had gone over to my house with one of my friends and we had a great time!! but then...we went to the dance, and he left me to play volleyball with his (ex? =.) crush. He promised that he would go dance with me soon...and he never came...and I cried later that night at the dance (long story) and he got really upset that I was crying because of him, and started crying!!! And, he went on myspace and wrote that he was really mad at himself because he had ruined his only chance...and said sorry, and that he liked me alot and that he never wanted to see me cry again. ='] I felt so good.

Or, like yesterday, when in math class, he came over to me and was sitting by me...we were talking and laughing...it was great (although we didn't finish our work =p)But then, today, he seemed totally distant and in a really bad mood, and hardly even talked to me, except when he came over and sat by me in math and said that the movie we were watching was gay!

A lot of my friends are saying that he is being a player and using me...and I guess he might be, but I don't know, because then I talk to him and he makes me feel like he does like me a lot!! HELP!!

He always listens to me, and notices when I am around...we always make eye contact and smile, but I don't know, he is confusing me...

Oh...and one of my friends suggested me asking HIM out... would that be wierd? =. and is it a good idea...or do I just need to move on?

VictorM's advice:

"A lot of my friends are saying that he is being a player and using me". What? Using you for what? Do you girls even know what that means or do you all go to some school to learn these dumb things? I think a lot of your friends are just plain wacky!

Enjoy the good times and give him some slack when he's moody. His moods really aren't a reflections of his feelings for you. It's just that hormones are flooding his system and it causes all kinds of unpredictable reactions. That's why boys are so moody, specially at your age. Your friend sounds very normal to me.

You could ask him out to a movie or something, but it's best to let him do it. Boys your age need to built up their confidence and asking a girl out is one of those things they prefer to do, even if it can take a while for them to get the courage to do it.