Submitted on Thursday, May 08, 2008
By Brittany, 15, from AB:

Okay so here is the deal, in my group of friends there is this guy, we have never been extremely close but we talk and hug ect. I’ve liked him for about 6 months, but as far as I know he has never had a girlfriend, and is fairly shy, but he did know I like dhim nothing just came of it and then I slowly stopped. So one daylast week we where hugging and things happened, and next thing I know my hand is on his crotch and his are down my shirt, YAY for me, then Monday I come back to school, and we are at lunch and he is sitting with his arms around me and we are just cuddling and then we went to work, and he said he was tired and was going to his car I said I didn’t want him to leave me he told me to come, I already figured I would be giving him head before we got in the car, the first day all of this started it started with him tickling me, when he poked my boob, he was like I win, so I poked his crotch and it escalated from there, so we where in his car and he was laying against me with his head on my chest groping my boobs lightly and was like I win and I said, if I gave you a blowjob I'd win, so I did, and he was like you win times infinity I said it was a win win and he agreed. And now he isn’t as snuggly anymore or anything so I figure he got what he wanted now he’s done, am I just being a pessimist or am I right. Keep in mind he is 17 and I am 15.

VictorM's advice:

Damn, where were the girls like you when I was 17.... :-p

I don't know, Brittany, maybe there's something more than boob poking and blow jobs to having a boyfriend. Maybe you need to slow down and take your time getting to know him.