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Sunday, May 04, 2008
I want him to know before its too late
Submitted on Thursday, May 01, 2008
By Marianna, 18, from Brooklyn:
There's this guy at work that I am really interested in. I know he likes me because he tried asking my sister what kind of guys I like! He asked if I was single. I got more info from a friend of mine who is like a father to me..he got info from him saying that he likes me. But the guy I like has no clue of what I think of him.
I don't get him, he asks me questions, little questions. Maybe I'm overreacting but I don't know. Either he's too shy or he's scared that I might say no to him "IF" he decides to ask me out!
How do I talk with him, and make him know that I am interested in him?
He talks to other girls fine, but me he hardly talks except when he passes by he smiles or looks at me. Or at times when we are looking at each other he smiles at me. He helps me put things in their right place in the store. (we work together). basically if i need help he says "ill do it for you"
What do I do? I dont know how to let him know I am interested! I want him to know before its too late.
VictorM's advice:
Maybe your guy is shy or afraid of a "no", but there's a good chance that he's just being smart and learning more about you before he starts spending his money on you.
Girls see a guy they like and want to get him ball-and-chained even before they know if he's a mass murder (and even if he is, they feel they can reform him); guys, on the other hand, once they like a girl they want to find out more about her before they are ball-and-chained to her. Your guy is still in the learning phase. Give him time.
I suggest that you don't overtly tell him that you like him. Instead, let him chase you. Guys love the process of romantic conquest.
By Marianna, 18, from Brooklyn:
There's this guy at work that I am really interested in. I know he likes me because he tried asking my sister what kind of guys I like! He asked if I was single. I got more info from a friend of mine who is like a father to me..he got info from him saying that he likes me. But the guy I like has no clue of what I think of him.
I don't get him, he asks me questions, little questions. Maybe I'm overreacting but I don't know. Either he's too shy or he's scared that I might say no to him "IF" he decides to ask me out!
How do I talk with him, and make him know that I am interested in him?
He talks to other girls fine, but me he hardly talks except when he passes by he smiles or looks at me. Or at times when we are looking at each other he smiles at me. He helps me put things in their right place in the store. (we work together). basically if i need help he says "ill do it for you"
What do I do? I dont know how to let him know I am interested! I want him to know before its too late.
VictorM's advice:
Maybe your guy is shy or afraid of a "no", but there's a good chance that he's just being smart and learning more about you before he starts spending his money on you.
Girls see a guy they like and want to get him ball-and-chained even before they know if he's a mass murder (and even if he is, they feel they can reform him); guys, on the other hand, once they like a girl they want to find out more about her before they are ball-and-chained to her. Your guy is still in the learning phase. Give him time.
I suggest that you don't overtly tell him that you like him. Instead, let him chase you. Guys love the process of romantic conquest.
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