By Dee, 23, from Louisiana:

I have a very serious problem. I have been dating someone for two months now. I think he is a sweet guy and we get along well, the problem is I recently got a feeling that something isn't right. My car broke down a few days ago so I got him to pick me up from work because I couldn't find another ride because I work at a club and get off at 2 am. Anyway, we had our first kiss that night. Nothing major just a peck on the lips. He picked me up from work yesterday as well, but this time we sat in his car and talked for awhile. To make a long story short he attempted to kiss me on my neck and touch me and places that he knows I'm uncomfortable with. I told him to stop and he did but then he got this scary look in his eyes so I got out and went inside. I don't know why he thought we would go from our first kiss to something more the next day. Now I don't want to talk to him anymore but I don't know how to tell him because I have a bad feeling about him now. I'm scared because now he knows where I live and work. What to do?

VictorM's advice:

If you have a bad feeling about the guy, you can stop seeing him, but sounds like worrying because he knows where you work and live is overkill. Nothing about what you said makes it sound like the guy poses a danger to you.

I think you're making an issue about nothing. I don't mean to minimize how you feel, but frankly, you're 23, you have been dating for a couple of months... a kiss on the neck and an attempt to go further sounds like very normal behavior to me. If on top of that, you have known him to be a gentleman during this whole time and he stopped when you asked him to, I think you're the problem, not him. The guy sounds normal to me; you sound like you're a scary cat 12 year old not ready to date.

If he's smart you don't have to worry about telling him you don't want to see him again -- he should stop seeing you and look for someone that's better suited for him.