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Tuesday, May 06, 2008

 

I like this guy but i'm not sure if he likes me

Submitted on Saturday, May 03, 2008
By Serena, 15, from NY:

I like this guy but I'm not sure if he likes me. At first I thought he likes me cause he's always nice to me but he's also nice to every other girl. He's the shy type, he's nice to everyone even though he doesn't even like them. He doesn't talk much though. He used to go out with my best friend but she cheated on him and dumped him. My other friend thinks that he still likes my best friend. There are other girls who like him and would go out with him. I always try to talk to him. Once I was sitting next to him ands these other girls called him to sit with them and he did and I would be sitting alone by myself. Every time on msn I would always be the one to talk to him but he never talk to me first. He tells me about his family and all and I do too to him. I make him laugh and joke around. Once I said I loved him as a joke to see his reaction and there's this one time I said it in another language he said not to say that cause it seemed like I was asking him to go out with me or marry so I told him I was joking. I said it again and I said serious and so he said he love me too but I told him that he was lying and his answer was if he's lying than i'm lying too but I said i wasn't :) But I don't know if he does like me or he's just trying to be nice, like he's nice to other girl who likes him and I know cause that girl told me. He acts normal. He only talk to me if only i start the conversation first. I feel like I'm trying too hard and that maybe he's not interested at all and just trying to be nice. Does he like me? What can I do? Give me some tips please :)

Thanks for taking your time to read this.

VictorM's advice:

You are trying too hard. Guys like to chase girls and you're not posing much of a challenge. He knows he can have you anytime he wants. That takes the fun away from it.

Make yourself scarce and see if he comes after you. If he does, be nice and make it fun, but stop with all the lovey-dovey baloney.

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