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Wednesday, May 07, 2008

 

I just feel really crummy at the moment

Submitted on Sunday, May 04, 2008
By Jane, 17, from The land of confused:

Okay, hmm where to start? Ok I was sort of wondering since your awesome in giving advice and I love you don't sugar coat it for us you just tell it like it is, let me tell you something, that's what we NEED.

Ok, for my question. You see I have a problem. There is this guy and I've liked him for a long time and sometime last year I decided to take a chance and I sent him a message that asked him if he wanted to go see a movie or something. Well he never wrote back at all. My brother whom he is friends with, says that he is just ubber shy and that I shouldn’t think on it. Well I got over it, or well as the old saying goes time heals all wounds. I won't lie, it hurt like hell. So it's been almost a year and then yesterday, BAM I see him and he sees me and I didn't talk to him cause he seemed really busy (he was working). I just feel really crummy at the moment. Cause I really like him and I can't do a dang thing about it. So now I sit here debating with myself to send him a message and be like, "Hey I do believe I saw you the other day..." Or if I should just forget about it and try and move on. Help me, please. Let me add that I really like this guy, and you know I kind of always have. HELP!

VictorM's advice:

You should try to contact him and get something going if you can.

The way I see it, if you don't contact him, you'll be crummy and will have zero chance of ever getting with him. If you contact him, sure, it'll be crummy if he turns you down but at least you have some chance of hooking up with him.

And believe me, the crummy of not ever knowing is a lot worse than the crummy of getting closure. So... contact him and take your chance.

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