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Tuesday, May 06, 2008
He is very closed about liking any girls
Submitted on Saturday, May 03, 2008
By Sarita, 18, from Virgina:
What is going on in his head?
Okay so its almost time for prom and guys and girls are getting together and whatnot. For over one year i've been 'head over heels' for a guy. We had classes with one another last year, and we talked during those periods. Last year we fought, we scowled, we argued , I got pissed, he apoligized, I flirted, etc. This year we don't see one another much. Sometimes after school we'll talk about colleges and schools.
He is very closed about liking any girls, he asn't made any crushes public to his friends (i'm friends with one of his friends), and one of his friends asked him to prom and he said "I don't want to go with anyone" to her. Whenever I'm alone with him we can't stop talking about school, colleges (all safe topics).
I don't understand if he's not interested or if he's very secretive about his crushes. He talks to girls perfectly fine, but I don't know if I should make a move or wait for him. Help me please!!
VictorM's advice:
He sounds like a guy who knows what he wants. I'd take his behavior as not being interested in you. Further, I would take his friend's statement that he never talks about girls to mean that he doesn't talk about you.
Move on, Sarita, move on. Besides, unless you're both going to the same college what would be the point?
By Sarita, 18, from Virgina:
What is going on in his head?
Okay so its almost time for prom and guys and girls are getting together and whatnot. For over one year i've been 'head over heels' for a guy. We had classes with one another last year, and we talked during those periods. Last year we fought, we scowled, we argued , I got pissed, he apoligized, I flirted, etc. This year we don't see one another much. Sometimes after school we'll talk about colleges and schools.
He is very closed about liking any girls, he asn't made any crushes public to his friends (i'm friends with one of his friends), and one of his friends asked him to prom and he said "I don't want to go with anyone" to her. Whenever I'm alone with him we can't stop talking about school, colleges (all safe topics).
I don't understand if he's not interested or if he's very secretive about his crushes. He talks to girls perfectly fine, but I don't know if I should make a move or wait for him. Help me please!!
VictorM's advice:
He sounds like a guy who knows what he wants. I'd take his behavior as not being interested in you. Further, I would take his friend's statement that he never talks about girls to mean that he doesn't talk about you.
Move on, Sarita, move on. Besides, unless you're both going to the same college what would be the point?
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