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Sunday, May 11, 2008
He forgot that we were supposed to hang out on Friday
Submitted on Saturday, May 10, 2008
By Lauren, 16, from Ottawa:
I'm a little confussed of what to do. My brofriend has never forgotten me before or anything. Then all of the sudden this weekend he forgot that we were supposed to hang out on Friday, and instead made plans with one of his guy friends, who he is also with all day Saturday. He felt really bad about it and said he'd call me on Friday once he got back from his friend's house ... well, he never called! Even if he was invited to stay another night or whatever couldn't he have called so I at least i knew i wasn't forgotten? Also, I was really upset on Thursday so he wanted to call to make sure I was alright...yet no call...So I don't know, either I should just wait to see when and if he'll call, or if I should call him before he heads off to his friends.
VictorM's advice:
When people don't fear facing someone who is upset about small stuff, they are more likely to call. Chances are that he's a pulling a "it's easier to get forgiveness than to listen to her bitch" move.
So he "forgot" to call, so what? Let him have fun with his friend. Meanwhile, have fun with your friends. Being a nag isn't going to get you anywhere. Two people who can have fun without the other are more likely to enjoy each other when they are together.
By Lauren, 16, from Ottawa:
I'm a little confussed of what to do. My brofriend has never forgotten me before or anything. Then all of the sudden this weekend he forgot that we were supposed to hang out on Friday, and instead made plans with one of his guy friends, who he is also with all day Saturday. He felt really bad about it and said he'd call me on Friday once he got back from his friend's house ... well, he never called! Even if he was invited to stay another night or whatever couldn't he have called so I at least i knew i wasn't forgotten? Also, I was really upset on Thursday so he wanted to call to make sure I was alright...yet no call...So I don't know, either I should just wait to see when and if he'll call, or if I should call him before he heads off to his friends.
VictorM's advice:
When people don't fear facing someone who is upset about small stuff, they are more likely to call. Chances are that he's a pulling a "it's easier to get forgiveness than to listen to her bitch" move.
So he "forgot" to call, so what? Let him have fun with his friend. Meanwhile, have fun with your friends. Being a nag isn't going to get you anywhere. Two people who can have fun without the other are more likely to enjoy each other when they are together.
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My brofriend has never forgotten me before or anything.
Guys are always good in the beginning. Its natural for the attention to drop off after awhile. It's normal.
Some say that men will never outdo women in two things: love and revenge.
Keep loving him. Don't give in to wanting revenge. But let him know that you were disappointed, dont play games.
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Guys are always good in the beginning. Its natural for the attention to drop off after awhile. It's normal.
Some say that men will never outdo women in two things: love and revenge.
Keep loving him. Don't give in to wanting revenge. But let him know that you were disappointed, dont play games.
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