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Tuesday, May 13, 2008
He apparently didn't save my number
Submitted on Sunday, May 11, 2008
By celeste willis, 37, from Canterbury:
I smsed a guy twice, he replied but apparently didn't save my number and could not make it to an outing I organised with friends. He apologised through a friend and then in person only because we happen to run into each other. Is this guy not interested? I feel that he may not be. I gave him another chance and invited him spontaneously to catch up just for a drink after work and he said he couldn't make it. I find it hard to believe that a guy who your friends claim is keen on you loses your number.
VictorM's advice:
Of course he could have lost your number. Losing, misplacing, erasing, forgetting... this stuff happens all the time. Then you asked him to a drink "spontaneously" and you're expecting the guy to jump at your request. But come on, people have lives, commitments, appointments, etc.
Give the guy another chance.
By celeste willis, 37, from Canterbury:
I smsed a guy twice, he replied but apparently didn't save my number and could not make it to an outing I organised with friends. He apologised through a friend and then in person only because we happen to run into each other. Is this guy not interested? I feel that he may not be. I gave him another chance and invited him spontaneously to catch up just for a drink after work and he said he couldn't make it. I find it hard to believe that a guy who your friends claim is keen on you loses your number.
VictorM's advice:
Of course he could have lost your number. Losing, misplacing, erasing, forgetting... this stuff happens all the time. Then you asked him to a drink "spontaneously" and you're expecting the guy to jump at your request. But come on, people have lives, commitments, appointments, etc.
Give the guy another chance.
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Yes, one more chance. And if he is not available, forget him. If he really likes you, he will get in touch with you. Only thing, it will probably take a week or two the light bulb to go off in his head and call you.
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: 7:09 PM
: 7:09 PM
Don't trust your friends, either. Friends are notorious for making up dramas and supposed interest that is simply not there.
Actions speak louder than words. Give him another chance, then just leave it alone. You've shown your interest. Ball's in his court.
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Actions speak louder than words. Give him another chance, then just leave it alone. You've shown your interest. Ball's in his court.
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