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Friday, May 09, 2008
The easy way out
Submitted on Thursday, May 08, 2008
By Jane, 22, from Canada:
Why do guys prefer to run away from problems rather than work them out? It seems that in every relationship I am in, the guy breaks up with me over little things and accuses me of being too dramatic.
VictorM's advice:
If a guy really cares for a girl, he stays and works things out. If he loses interest in her, what's the point of working problems out if, in essence, the magic is gone and he's not into her anymore? See, most guys are very good at not wasting time with girls they don't feel are a good match, so there's nothing to do but head towards the door.
Once a guy loses interest in a girl, running away is an easy way out because otherwise, it all gets overly... dramatic. And life is too short for that.
By Jane, 22, from Canada:
Why do guys prefer to run away from problems rather than work them out? It seems that in every relationship I am in, the guy breaks up with me over little things and accuses me of being too dramatic.
VictorM's advice:
If a guy really cares for a girl, he stays and works things out. If he loses interest in her, what's the point of working problems out if, in essence, the magic is gone and he's not into her anymore? See, most guys are very good at not wasting time with girls they don't feel are a good match, so there's nothing to do but head towards the door.
Once a guy loses interest in a girl, running away is an easy way out because otherwise, it all gets overly... dramatic. And life is too short for that.
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