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Tuesday, May 13, 2008
Complicated
Submitted on Monday, May 12, 2008
By christine, 41, from livermore:
What is your conclusion on this:
A man who acts really mean to his girlfriend while he's around or talking to other females? He acts like he doesn't love or need you when he's around his guys or acquaintances. But when he's with you alone, he acts like a puppy that needs love and you.
VictorM's advice:
This is sorta like "Complicated", the Avril Lavigne song, isn't it?
I like you the way you are
When we're, driving in my car
And you're talking to me
One on one
But you become
Somebody else
'Round everyone else
Watchin' your back
Like you can't relax
You're tryin' to be cool
You look like a fool
To me
Talk to him about it and help him to see a professional therapist. Your guy probably came from a family where showing affection in public was seen as an act of weakness. It's doubtful that he can change on his own, even if he wanted to. He has to get to the bottom of why this is happening.
I would not write him off provided he recognizes the problem and is willing to do something about it.
By christine, 41, from livermore:
What is your conclusion on this:
A man who acts really mean to his girlfriend while he's around or talking to other females? He acts like he doesn't love or need you when he's around his guys or acquaintances. But when he's with you alone, he acts like a puppy that needs love and you.
VictorM's advice:
This is sorta like "Complicated", the Avril Lavigne song, isn't it?
I like you the way you are
When we're, driving in my car
And you're talking to me
One on one
But you become
Somebody else
'Round everyone else
Watchin' your back
Like you can't relax
You're tryin' to be cool
You look like a fool
To me
Talk to him about it and help him to see a professional therapist. Your guy probably came from a family where showing affection in public was seen as an act of weakness. It's doubtful that he can change on his own, even if he wanted to. He has to get to the bottom of why this is happening.
I would not write him off provided he recognizes the problem and is willing to do something about it.
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Next time he does that to you in front of his friends? Grab his balls in one hand (I'm sure they're small enough to fit) and tell him to give you the respect you deserve.
Seriously, if this guy is around your age he's had plenty of time in his pathetic life to figure out how not to be a total dick.
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Seriously, if this guy is around your age he's had plenty of time in his pathetic life to figure out how not to be a total dick.
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