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Saturday, May 10, 2008
Can't ask him to be my boyfriend
Submitted on Thursday, May 08, 2008
By Jasmine, 12, from south carolina:
How do I ask a boy out if I'm shy? I like him and want to know him better but I can't ask him to be my boyfriend. I just cant say that.
VictorM's advice:
Don't ask him to be your boyfriend. And you don't even have to ask him out. You just want to find times when you and him can spend time together, without you having to ask. How do you do that? Here's some examples: "I'm going to the mall today at 2 o'clock, if you're there come say hello " (maybe he'll show up, maybe he won't, but if he does, not only can you two talk, but you know he's interested in spending time with you); "I want to see Speed Racer but I'd hate to go alone" (this invites him to offer to take you. If he does, great, if he doesn't, at least there's no rejection).
By Jasmine, 12, from south carolina:
How do I ask a boy out if I'm shy? I like him and want to know him better but I can't ask him to be my boyfriend. I just cant say that.
VictorM's advice:
Don't ask him to be your boyfriend. And you don't even have to ask him out. You just want to find times when you and him can spend time together, without you having to ask. How do you do that? Here's some examples: "I'm going to the mall today at 2 o'clock, if you're there come say hello " (maybe he'll show up, maybe he won't, but if he does, not only can you two talk, but you know he's interested in spending time with you); "I want to see Speed Racer but I'd hate to go alone" (this invites him to offer to take you. If he does, great, if he doesn't, at least there's no rejection).
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