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Tuesday, April 29, 2008
We have misunderstandings and fights nearly every month
Submitted on Monday, April 28, 2008
By Arianna, 18, from Singapore:
Hey Victor!(: (again. lol.) That guy friend and I who's been friends for more than a year- so supposedly we should understand each other pretty well. But its like we have misunderstandings and fights nearly every month. It's childish I know, but somehow either one of us will get hurt by something the other said and so it goes. It's just so odd and perplexing because I don't get this from my other friends, be it guys or girls. Why do you think this happens so often? Do you think my feelings for him get in the way?
It's getting really tiring and I told him that I was sick of it and felt like quitting the friendship and some other pretty harsh stuffs. Oops! Stupid, I know. ): And it was kind of on impulse. So now we're pretty unsure where to go and have yet to talk it out. What do you think I should say to salvage the situation? Please help. Thank you in advance! (:
VictorM's advice:
Call him and talk as if nothing happened. If he brings up your harsh words, say you're sorry. If that's still not enough, offer to have sex with him*. That oughta fix everything. :-p
* Yes, I'm kidding. But seriously, guys get over things easily. So just call him and start talking again. He wants to be your friend as much as you want to be his. If neither one of you cared so much you wouldn't be acting like children and fighting so much.
By Arianna, 18, from Singapore:
Hey Victor!(: (again. lol.) That guy friend and I who's been friends for more than a year- so supposedly we should understand each other pretty well. But its like we have misunderstandings and fights nearly every month. It's childish I know, but somehow either one of us will get hurt by something the other said and so it goes. It's just so odd and perplexing because I don't get this from my other friends, be it guys or girls. Why do you think this happens so often? Do you think my feelings for him get in the way?
It's getting really tiring and I told him that I was sick of it and felt like quitting the friendship and some other pretty harsh stuffs. Oops! Stupid, I know. ): And it was kind of on impulse. So now we're pretty unsure where to go and have yet to talk it out. What do you think I should say to salvage the situation? Please help. Thank you in advance! (:
VictorM's advice:
Call him and talk as if nothing happened. If he brings up your harsh words, say you're sorry. If that's still not enough, offer to have sex with him*. That oughta fix everything. :-p
* Yes, I'm kidding. But seriously, guys get over things easily. So just call him and start talking again. He wants to be your friend as much as you want to be his. If neither one of you cared so much you wouldn't be acting like children and fighting so much.
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