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Monday, April 28, 2008
Sleeping with a coworker
Submitted on Friday, April 25, 2008
By Jen, 22, from Iowa:
Me and a co worker have been hanging out and sleeping together once a week for a month. I really like him and he flirts with me a lot at work, but also flirts with other girls at work? Another thing is he wants to make sure I'm only sleeping with him...so is there a chance?
VictorM's advice:
A chance that he'll want to get serious with a fuck buddy? Well... there is a chance, of course, but as long as you continue in the current mode, your odds only get slimmer. That's because guys tend to not think highly of girls who fuck around. And that's what you are to him.
By Jen, 22, from Iowa:
Me and a co worker have been hanging out and sleeping together once a week for a month. I really like him and he flirts with me a lot at work, but also flirts with other girls at work? Another thing is he wants to make sure I'm only sleeping with him...so is there a chance?
VictorM's advice:
A chance that he'll want to get serious with a fuck buddy? Well... there is a chance, of course, but as long as you continue in the current mode, your odds only get slimmer. That's because guys tend to not think highly of girls who fuck around. And that's what you are to him.
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he wants to make sure I'm only sleeping with him
The knowledge of which just serves to boost his ego, I'm sure. Make plans to miss your regularly scheduled fuck appointment and see what he does.
The knowledge of which just serves to boost his ego, I'm sure. Make plans to miss your regularly scheduled fuck appointment and see what he does.
# posted by 
: 4:29 PM
: 4:29 PM
I've never understood why guys have this double standard regarding sex. They want to sleep with women who sleep around (easy sex) so in essence, the men are sleeping around, too. You say that men don't think too highly of these women. Do the men think highly of themselves? Or is this another "boys will be boys" so it's OK rationale?
Women have sexual needs, just like men. Maybe not to the emotionally detached level that men seem to be able to achieve, but we have needs. Why do men not understand and/or accept this?
We women are all tired of the Madonna/whore syndrome.
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Women have sexual needs, just like men. Maybe not to the emotionally detached level that men seem to be able to achieve, but we have needs. Why do men not understand and/or accept this?
We women are all tired of the Madonna/whore syndrome.
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