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Sunday, April 27, 2008

 

My husband every once in awhile likes to watch porn clips

Submitted on Wednesday, April 23, 2008
By Krystal, 23, from Japan:

My husband every once in awhile likes to watch porn clips which I don't mind but it seems like the majority of them are girls with darker skin tones. So does that mean he has a fetish with darker skinned women? It sometimes makes me insecure about myself because I get a stupid thought in my head like I'm not exactly what he was looking for.

VictorM's advice:

I think you're imagining things. Looking at the same clips I bet I could come up with other patterns, like most of the girls are shorter than you, or taller than you, or have longer hair than you, etc, etc. It seems that by noticing the skin tone reveals more about you and your insecurity than it does about his preferences.

In any case, the fantasies that guys may enjoy while watching porn seldom have any relevance to the women they love. If it wasn't so, most guys would be dating 18 year old cheerleaders who babysit and enjoy threesomes involving their twin sister.

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