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Tuesday, April 22, 2008

 

My boyfriend is a great guy

Submitted on Saturday, April 19, 2008
By nan_cu, 18, from Fl:

My boyfriend is a great guy. He treats me good and respects me, but he doesn't like spending time with me, that's what he tells me. He wants to go out with his friends, at all times, which I really don't mind but I also like attention and he doesn't give it to me. I could be paranoid but he got a friend who he is constantly texting and he deletes his texts so I don't see them. What could this mean? Please help, me I am very confuse!!

VictorM's advice:

He tells you he doesn't like spending time with you? Um... give him a medal for honesty.

Looks like your boyfriend just isn't ready for a relationship. If you want attention from a boyfriend, find another great guy. Judging by your low standards, that shouldn't be too hard.

As for the text messages, what business do you have reading them anyway? They are his messages, not yours. Who knows what they say... could be anything. What difference does it make anyway? It's not like you figure in his life much anyway.

Comments:
Why are you girls always defending these assholes by saying "he's a great guy?" Sheesh. Get a backbone and lay down the rules. If he doesn't like spending time with you, then kick his ass to the curb.

Seriously, ladies. Quit being so weak and desperate. Especially when you're so young!
 
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