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Wednesday, April 30, 2008
I've been dating this amazing guy
Submitted on Monday, April 28, 2008
By DJ, 23, from LA:
I've been dating this amazing guy for about a month now. I think he is very sweet and we share the same relationship values and connect emotionally and intellectually. The problem is that he wants to become a couple but I'm not sure. I like him but I feel that we shouldn't be in rush to be together. Another concern is that he got out out a year and a half relationship 6 months ago. Do you think he is ready for another relationship?
VictorM's advice:
I don't know if he's ready or not. A lot depends on how the relationship ended. But barring them throwing knives at each other, he should be ready. First of all, a year and a half relationship is not that long and six months is long enough to get on with life.
But it sounds like you're not ready yet, which is a twist to the usual story where more often than not the guy is the one wanting to wait.
I'll say these things:
-- Amazing guys don't grow on trees.
-- Dating for one month is not enough to know if he's really that amazing.
-- Don't rush into anything unless you're comfortable.
By DJ, 23, from LA:
I've been dating this amazing guy for about a month now. I think he is very sweet and we share the same relationship values and connect emotionally and intellectually. The problem is that he wants to become a couple but I'm not sure. I like him but I feel that we shouldn't be in rush to be together. Another concern is that he got out out a year and a half relationship 6 months ago. Do you think he is ready for another relationship?
VictorM's advice:
I don't know if he's ready or not. A lot depends on how the relationship ended. But barring them throwing knives at each other, he should be ready. First of all, a year and a half relationship is not that long and six months is long enough to get on with life.
But it sounds like you're not ready yet, which is a twist to the usual story where more often than not the guy is the one wanting to wait.
I'll say these things:
-- Amazing guys don't grow on trees.
-- Dating for one month is not enough to know if he's really that amazing.
-- Don't rush into anything unless you're comfortable.
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